Mike Smalling
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Holy fecking shit, they are actually taking legal action. What an embarrassment!
Holy fecking shit, they are actually taking legal action. What an embarrassment!
All valid points.
But if Rubalies truly thinks he is innocent in the sense that the wild celebration was initiated by Hermoso lifting him up (which cant be seen in the footage) and that he believes it was a spontan euforic celebration and not intended sexual harassment - then Rubiales is right to have the viewpoint that people who think he should be sent to jail for sexual assault and should be fired are idiots. (that does not mean he is right, but his actions would have some kind of logic to it)
And again, If Rubiles truly believes he did nothing wrong, then it would make zero sense to apologize to the team, to the world and everyone around it as that would be admitting wrongdoing and signaling what he did was wrong.
I think Rubialies could be an asshat while the current incident might not been nearly as bad as many want to perceive it as. And thats what will be debated in court, this happening in isolation and his probable canning from the job because of it,.
I dont oppose him running the show in a dubious manner, perhaps that will also now will be investigated and brought into evidence. So in that sense Rubiales might have killed himself off properly by contesting this today If there is a proper investigation to all of his previous actions, then that might be even worse for him!
Serious accusations, needs serious scrutiny and from what it looks like that will be happening. If Rubiales is as rotten people make him out to be he will be cooked in court, which is also the proper place to decide guilt rather than social media and media mobs from both sides.
If he'd apologised rather than calling the people who complained "idiots" when first challenged, people might be tempted to believe that it was a momentary lapse of over-excitement.
If he had delivered a straightforward apology to Hermosa and the rest of the squad when he realised he was in trouble, some people might be more tempted to forgive him. Instead he gave the classic, "I'm sorry it bothered other people," non-apology of someone who doesn't think there's a problem.
Meanwhile he tried to talk Hermosa, her family and her teammates into backing him up on video - again, no apology from him. He then asked the RFEF to make up a written statement and attribute it to Hermosa - which they did. Hermosa had to denounce that.
Looking from the outside at his history, previous and current complaints against him - he's a straightforward liar who bluffs and bullies his way through the cover-up playbook.
You're looking for a video snippet, I think that's just the public tip of an ugly iceberg.
I think you are completely wrong here. I dont think he would ever make it out alive regardless of what he had done or said afterwards. We have to realize there are 10-15 players who literally were handed a golden chance to get rid of Rubiales, so in my mind once they were going to land on Rubiales like a brick of wall and force him out!
If you are hunted prey as Rubiales, it only takes one slip to get the whole movement going against you full force, and that point its pretty much game over.
I dont think there was anything sexual or nefarious in what he did to Hermoso.I´d rather think he behaved like an immature teen when he put a hand to his crotch in the stands, for that there is no excuse at all. I found that to be a worse offense than the peck. That could also be seen as the chief losing his emotional cool and behaving in an unfit manner.
I think also its possible for Rubiales to be carried away in celebration and Hermoso feeling uneasy, meaning the two could feel completely different about what happened.
Not seen anyone credible ask for any criminal charges or talk about jail, the question here is only whether he should stay in his job or not
Again it's more about the aftermath rather than the actual incident
All valid points.
But if Rubalies truly thinks he is innocent in the sense that the wild celebration was initiated by Hermoso lifting him up (which cant be seen in the footage) and that he believes it was a spontan euforic celebration and not intended sexual harassment - then Rubiales is right to have the viewpoint that people who think he should be sent to jail for sexual assault and should be fired are idiots. (that does not mean he is right, but his actions would have some kind of logic to it)
And again, If Rubiles truly believes he did nothing wrong, then it would make zero sense to apologize to the team, to the world and everyone around it as that would be admitting wrongdoing and signaling what he did was wrong.
I think Rubialies could be an asshat while the current incident might not been nearly as bad as many want to perceive it as. And thats what will be debated in court, this happening in isolation and his probable canning from the job because of it,.
I dont oppose him running the show in a dubious manner, perhaps that will also now will be investigated and brought into evidence. So in that sense Rubiales might have killed himself off properly by contesting this today If there is a proper investigation to all of his previous actions, then that might be even worse for him!
Serious accusations, needs serious scrutiny and from what it looks like that will be happening. If Rubiales is as rotten people make him out to be he will be cooked in court, which is also the proper place to decide guilt rather than social media and media mobs from both sides.
From the mob I am seeing Rubalies being pretty much treated as a pervert and creep that likes to molest women. Of course this is the people that shout the most so they take it a step to far!
For me about the incident whats important is the intent, and for me there are 2 scenarios:
1. Rubiales explanation.
Scenario: Hermoso who is one of the longest standing spanish members approaches Rubiales and one could imagine that would be a very special moment. Hermoso is also a very emotional player. Rubiales is riled up already and if Hermoso did lift him up it might have triggered him to go full savage celebration mode (AKA YOU FINALLY GOT YOUR TITLE; WOW!!!!!) and the peck being a part appreciation for a spanish legend in a wild emotional state rather than abuse.
2. The sexual assault accusation.
Scenario:
If Rubiales somehow got off sexually by doing what he did, sexual assault.
If there is anything true to option 2, then I think firing the guy instantly would be warranted and also black listing him for all time.
For me scenario 1 is most likely since I cant see Rubiales being such an animal to plot and sexually assault Hermoso in front of the whole wide world with the risks that could come with it.
In both scenarios Hermoso could have felt discomfort and disgust by the kiss, but in my world its a massive difference in how I perceive the seriousness of the incident!
If Rubiales deserves all that coming for him regardless, thats another top that I have no or little knowledge about, hopefully the investigation will shed light on shady business on his behalf.
That's a strange logic, and this is why it's getting worse for him. The lack of self awareness to acknowledge that you have caused offense is the main problem here. And going on the offensive against the players shows how he's an absolute piece of shit.
From the clip it doesn't seem like that big of a deal to me. Is is inappropriate? YES. Should they ask him to resign for this? I think that's a bit exaggerated
It is ironic seeing men ruin what should have been a great celebration of a tournament derided by... men
None of this is of any interest to me, already ridiculous amount of overanalyzing of what is really a relatively simple situation in my opinion
Again no one credible is talking about anything criminal here, it just about his job - unless I missed it, i don't think even anyone in this thread has asked for jail time.
Well said.It is ironic seeing men ruin what should have been a great celebration of a tournament derided by... men
@Lightbringer Why are you repeatedly referring to it as a peck? It seems like an attempt to downplay the nature of what went on.
It was definitely not a peck. He grabbed her head and forceably kissed her full on the lips.
@Lightbringer Why are you repeatedly referring to it as a peck? It seems like an attempt to downplay the nature of what went on.
It was definitely not a peck. He grabbed her head and forceably kissed her full on the lips.
People seem to hellbent on downplaying serious accusations. Well, at least the ones women make.
My understanding is that the photo has been edited since it's nowhere to be found in the video.The going on the offensive against the player by The Spanish Football Federation was initiated once Hermosos statement contradicts pictures of the incident, alleging Hermoso has been lying. Pending investigation and the entire video footage from all angles without cuts being released I cant decide if Rubiales & his crew have doctored evidence or not, can you?
"The evidence is conclusive," it said. "Mr President has not lied."
In a statement by players' union Futpro, which is representing 33-year-old Hermoso, she is quoted as saying "in no case did I seek to raise (lift) the president" while they embraced on the podium.
The Spanish Football Federation (RFEF) said: "The RFEF and Mr President will demonstrate each of the lies that are spread either by someone on behalf of the player or, if applicable, by the player herself.
https://www.bbc.com/sport/football/66626410?at_link_id=6181794A-43E4-11EE-A026-CDB6AD7C7D13
My understanding is that the photo has been edited since it's nowhere to be found in the video.
It's the behaviour of a narcissist. There's a few of them in the news lately. This guy, Putin, Trump. Men who do as they please and then blame others for their own wrongdoingsReally, is there no limit to the idiocy positions of authority in football seems to foster? He could probably have defused the whole thing by apologising profusely to Morellas and everyone, say he shouldn't have done it but was just swept along by the emotion of the moment, that it was an unacceptable thing to do and he's sorry it detracted from Spanish women's football's greatest moment and it'll never happen again. But no, he goes to war instead, pretty much torching the landscape and succeeding only in demonstrating conclusively that he's an arrogant, entitled, lying prick with the judgment of a bucket of bricks and no regard whatsoever for the good of Spanish football. A week after the greatest triumph in the entire history of Spanish women's football, he's threatening to sue 75 players and delusionally arguing that he can force people to play for the national team. That says it all.
I use the term peck as I think thats a much lighter kiss thats not necessarily has any sexual meaning and are far less sexual than a longer kiss with tongues which is a guaranteed way of showing romantic affection.
I am calling for serious investigations for serious accusations, when all facts are on the able, we are better equipped to make a judgement.
Dont you think we should wait to see the entire footage and determine whether Hermoso has deliberately lied in her statement? As of now her statement is in direct contrast with the latest evidence released.
Rubiales will still get whats coming for him when the investigation is done if he & the Spanish federation has altered/faked video or image footage.
It's the behaviour of a narcissist. There's a few of them in the news lately. This guy, Putin, Trump. Men who do as they please and then blame others for their own wrongdoings
Calling it "the peck" IS downplaying it. No matter how you try to justify it with your own completely made up kiss scale.
You go and "peck" a work colleague without their consent and see what happens to you.
Even if his stupid story is to be believed, does he ask the captain of the men’s team for a quick peck (which it wasn’t) if they’d won the World Cup?
And even if Hermano tried to pick him up, what’s that got to do with the kiss?
There is nothing at all excusable about his behaviour in pretty much any circumstance.
I am not denying I am downplaying the peck, I dont know why you think that.
If your read post #3730 on this very page, you can see what position I have on the incident in question.
And you can also understand why the comparison of me pecking a colleague at work has not relevance unless we just won the world cup and were high on emotion, context matters.
You can keep twisting point all you like, but it doesn't change the simple fact that calling what he did "the peck" is downplaying his actions.
I'm not disagreeing with anything else, so you are wasting your time going on and on about it.
Thats exactly what courts of laws are doing, letting both sides present their evidence in detail and then coming to a rational fact based conclusion based on that. I´d rather have it that way than social media mobs acting out without even having seen the entire footage in question, I also disagree this is a simple situation, we´ll see if you are correct and its swiftly resolved.
I think its much better to consider all all options and watch the entire footage than watching a 5 second clip without all context. If you are not interesting in seeing the whole footage or knowing if Hermoso lied in her statement or not, then thats your right of course!
Well I don't think it will be swiftly resolved, but it should be and again I put pretty much all the fault on Rubiales for the aftermath
This whole thing is clearly part of a much bigger picture that already started preWorld Cup with players going on strike etc - this is the reason a relatively simple situation has been blown out of all proportion
It's now a battle for power within Spanish football with players Vs the federation
I am downplaying his actions
I use the term peck as I think thats a much lighter kiss thats not necessarily has any sexual meaning and are far less sexual than a longer kiss with tongues which is a guaranteed way of showing romantic affection.
They also keep talking about court of law etc etc. Totally way off the mark here@Lightbringer Why are you repeatedly referring to it as a peck? It seems like an attempt to downplay the nature of what went on.
It was definitely not a peck. He grabbed her head and forceably kissed her full on the lips.