Using that argument Henry shouldn't be seen as the greatest Pl attacker of all time, he only won 2 leagues afterall. The likes of Rooney, Giggs, Drogba, Aguero won more than twice as much yet most people on this forum would rate Henry higher.
A couple of VVD's best seasons were when he didn't win anything at all, that shouldn't take away from the performances, you judge players on their individual merit, not how many leagues they've won.
When i analyse players and compare them to each other, my go to is not how many trophies each player won because thats dependant on their teammates, situation at the time and context. For example R9 never won a CL but i post a thread on here a couple years ago that added context to that, some people would automatically use that against him and say such and such player is better than him because they manage to win a couple European cups, but it doesn't always work like that.
Judge the players on their own merit, was such and such a better footballer than the other, better technique, faster, stronger, more consistent? In case of defenders, i think if i was building a team in any era, i would rather have a player that was better on the ball faster stronger and can play in a deep line or high line, VVD has this over both Terry and Vidic which is why i would go for him being better. When you look at it i can't really think of an area of the game where a Terry would better a VVD, probably just goalscoring, in the air in terms of defensive duels they would probably be neck and neck as two of the most aerially dominant cbs of the PL era.