Transgender Athletes

Men telling women how women should think about being women doesn't sit quite right with me.
Let’s call it what it is - misogyny. And @stepic is a prime example although he’ll no doubt fall over himself trying to explain away how it isn’t.
 
And what about how cis women are being portrayed by you? Calling them wee cis women seems fair to you? Are you favoring trans women over cis women for a particular reason?

In the world of sports even a small advantage can make a difference. We're talking seconds and mere inches that can determine a win.

It's just not right and like I mentioned before these wee cis women work their asses of and it's the decisions of mostly men(correct me if I'm wrong) that's creating a situation where they have to work even harder now to win in a category that's supposed to be dedicated to women with equal abilities.

If these women are found guilty of taking enhancement drugs to keep up then they'll get disqualified. The reason being they now have an advantage over the other athletes. It's that advantage that's an issue. It's not their identity. It's the advantage, no matter how small that will always create that doubt whenever a transwoman wins a competition.
It's not fair to them also if they'll always be doubted when they win. They want a clean win too. It's not fair to either party and that's why they should compete with athletes of equal ability in their own separate category where they can be celebrated instead of doubted.

see above
 
Let’s call it what it is - misogyny. And @stepic is a prime example although he’ll no doubt fall over himself trying to explain away how it isn’t.

I was clearly mocking those who present cis women as fragile. If you can’t understand that incredibly basic context then that’s on you.
 
I am literally saying the opposite. Please learn to read.

Cis women are not weak and fragile. They routinely beat trans women. THATS MY POINT
I was clearly mocking those who present cis women as fragile. If you can’t understand that incredibly basic context then that’s on you.
That’s more nonsense.

The average woman is at a disadvantage to the average trans woman in the sporting arena. This is just a fact. If you’re too bone headed to understand and accept this fact, then it’s you who needs help with comprehension.
 
Men telling women how women should think about being women doesn't sit quite right with me.
Especially on the left, it's a neat way to be mask misogyny. Not saying that's Step but yeah, once you see it....

Remember nothing angers men more than women saying no and asserting a boundary.
 
That’s more nonsense.

The average woman is at a disadvantage to the average trans woman in the sporting arena. This is just a fact. If you’re too bone headed to understand and accept this fact, then it’s you who needs help with comprehension.

I've tried to explain this to someone before, but it doesn't seem to be easy to understand.
I was 1.90m tall, 6'3 ish, when i was 14, i was pretty much done with puberty when i was 16.
Anyone who thinks i wouldn't have an advantage over girls in sports if i transitioned then at 16, at that size, are just straight up wrong.

And to those saying cis women often beat trans in sports, sure, maybe now, but if they are allowed to compete with women, it's just a matter of time before most in the top are trans women.

I want everyone to live a good, safe and happy life, no matter gender, sexuality or colour, but saying i don't think trans women should compete in the women's division, makes me a bigot and transphobe in most discussions online.
As some have pointed out earlier, this is why many don't bother taking part in these discussion.
 
I want everyone to live a good, safe and happy life, no matter gender, sexuality or colour, but saying i don't think trans women should compete in the women's division, makes me a bigot and transphobe in most discussions online.
Do you believe those two things are compatible? Is a transgender kid who wants to play sports but is banned living a good and happy life?
 
I've tried to explain this to someone before, but it doesn't seem to be easy to understand.
I was 1.90m tall, 6'3 ish, when i was 14, i was pretty much done with puberty when i was 16.
Anyone who thinks i wouldn't have an advantage over girls in sports if i transitioned then at 16, at that size, are just straight up wrong.

And to those saying cis women often beat trans in sports, sure, maybe now, but if they are allowed to compete with women, it's just a matter of time before most in the top are trans women.

I want everyone to live a good, safe and happy life, no matter gender, sexuality or colour, but saying i don't think trans women should compete in the women's division, makes me a bigot and transphobe in most discussions online.
As some have pointed out earlier, this is why many don't bother taking part in these discussion.
Just to add to this, it's not the tans women fault. None of this is their fault. The fault lies on the sporting organizations for not providing them with a place in the sporting world where they can compete fairly.
 
I don't necessarily disagree with you because biological advantages of male born people obviously comes into play, regardless of the already utilised limitations on testosterone and other tests carried out to ensure that fairplay is carried out, when it comes to physical activities, in these sports. And maybe those these existing processes need to be advertised more to improve general confidence, somewhat...?

But at the same time the human factor also needs to be accepted and recognised. And as the parent of a transitioning child I know, at least from a personal level listening to my kid and how they feel; it's frightening how often these examples in sport are used as a reason to attack their existence. And then politicians, more than happy to feck around and steal, suddenly decide that gender is going to be to focus of their political campaigns - which aren't in any way divisive purely because hate brings them votes. And now the media report it because, if it isn't clearly already the talking point which it already is after public figures have been piggybacking off of it, it certainly brings the clicks to their website... But ultimately we all collectively begin to forget the most important factor. The Human factor...

Too often we all look through these situations through a lense that forgets that we're not just discussing "person A" or "person B". These are real people who are affected by often arbitrary decisions made by sporting - and political - committees that prefer to follow the "out of sight, out of mind" mentality without a single thought about how their actions affect the people they're challenging.

Until you've had to comfort and reassure a young kid at 4am because they don't want to live anymore, because all they see online is hate about people like them, it's difficult to appreciate that this is more than just about empty, unassociated names, on a news report.

If we're talking about souls then let's get the morality and humanity parts sorted out first.
As a parent going through a similar situation, I could not agree more with this, it brought a tear to my eye reading it.

The sporting argument is a tough one and far more nuanced than many of the posts on here take into account. I don’t have an answer for it. But some of the posts here play into the spirit of the anti trans themes you see and hear online and in life everyday. Dismissing people has a very real and potentially devastating effect and one I see everyday.
 
Do you believe those two things are compatible? Is a transgender kid who wants to play sports but is banned living a good and happy life?
Who banned them? The other athletes? They were banned by sporting organizations. The other athletes had nothing to do with it and they shouldn't have to suffer the consequences of an organization who can't provide a safe environment for all their athletes to compete...fairly.
 
Who banned them? The other athletes? They were banned by sporting organizations. The other athletes had nothing to do with it and they shouldn't have to suffer the consequences of an organization who can't provide a safe environment for all their athletes to compete...fairly.
What? Where did I ever blame cis athletes, they're also is a shit position, I recognize that. I'm just pointing out the "I want everyone to be happy" is not possible in this debate.
 
Do you believe those two things are compatible? Is a transgender kid who wants to play sports but is banned living a good and happy life?

Sure they can do sports, but i don't think they should compete on top level against those born as girls.
Trans people can live a much better and safer life today than 20 or more years ago, it is easier to get the operations they need to transition (sorry i don't know the correct terms), so they have a good chance to live a better life.
They are more accepted in large parts of the world.
I think these are all steps in the right direction for them, and they should be happy.
Participating in female divisions in sports shouldn't be that important for their happiness.

I play and watch a lot of disc golf, there's a big discussion going around in that sport right now because of this.
It's pretty easy to pick side in disc golf atleast, cause the trans person this is mostly about, is also a douche.
She said something along the lines of "If they think it's unfair that i throw farther than them, they should just practice more and get better".

Also in disc golf there are 2 divisions, one called FPO (female pro open) and MPO (mixed pro open) - to me it seems quite obvious which she should play in.
Her defence is "then i'm not going to win money and lose income" - the same as so called cis women could say when she comes in and take their tournament winnings.
 
Sure they can do sports, but i don't think they should compete on top level against those born as girls.
Trans people can live a much better and safer life today than 20 or more years ago, it is easier to get the operations they need to transition (sorry i don't know the correct terms), so they have a good chance to live a better life.
They are more accepted in large parts of the world.
I think these are all steps in the right direction for them, and they should be happy.
Participating in female divisions in sports shouldn't be that important for their happiness.

I play and watch a lot of disc golf, there's a big discussion going around in that sport right now because of this.
It's pretty easy to pick side in disc golf atleast, cause the trans person this is mostly about, is also a douche.
She said something along the lines of "If they think it's unfair that i throw farther than them, they should just practice more and get better".

Also in disc golf there are 2 divisions, one called FPO (female pro open) and MPO (mixed pro open) - to me it seems quite obvious which she should play in.
Her defence is "then i'm not going to win money and lose income" - the same as so called cis women could say when she comes in and take their tournament winnings.
Do you make distinction between pro sports and high school sports?

Surely the consequences for an adult who is banned from playing a pro sport are different from the consequences to a 14 year old who is told you can't be a part of this because you're different.

I accept some harsh rules for transgender adults might be needed to maintain the fairness of professional sports, but I simply can't accept those rules when we're talking about kids.
 
Do you make distinction between pro sports and high school sports?

Surely the consequences for an adult who is banned from playing a pro sport are different from the consequences to a 14 year old who is told you can't be a part of this because you're different.

I accept some harsh rules for transgender adults might be needed to maintain the fairness of professional sports, but I simply can't accept those rules when we're talking about kids.

Is high school sports a thing outside of the US?
Never heard about it in my part of the world, atleast.

What about the people who lose their spot?
14 year olds shouldn't change gender (or sex, not sure what the right term is, i'm afraid).
 
Is high school sports a thing outside of the US?
Never heard about it in my part of the world, atleast.

What about the people who lose their spot?
14 year olds shouldn't change gender (or sex, not sure what the right term is, i'm afraid).
The US tend to export these things, so it'll be a matter of time.

What do you mean about spots? Spot in the team? That happens all the time for a number of reasons. I've lost my spot in teams because someone else was better, because I was having bad grades, because I broke a window in a locker room kicking a ball. It happens. But telling a kid "look you did nothing wrong but you're out of the team because you're different from the other kids", I mean that shit is devastating.

As for your last sentence, I couldn't disagree more, plenty of examples who did it and are much happier.
 
This. Like how can anyone seriously argue that there is no unfair advantage in transgender women competing with non transgender is beyond me but that's the result of years of radical left brainwashing I suppose. We struggle to define woman nowadays because people are afraid to offend some group and be called whatever-phobic. Madness.
And funny enough, women had to fight for their rights for centuries, and now comes the next thing. They will fight this hard, once the brainwashing wears off
 
And funny enough, women had to fight for their rights for centuries, and now comes the next thing. They will fight this hard, once the brainwashing wears off
More women than men are in favor of transgender rights. Luckily most women realize this is not us vs them. It's a tragic tactic, trying to pit cis women against transgender women.
 
I don't necessarily disagree with you because biological advantages of male born people obviously comes into play, regardless of the already utilised limitations on testosterone and other tests carried out to ensure that fairplay is carried out, when it comes to physical activities, in these sports. And maybe those these existing processes need to be advertised more to improve general confidence, somewhat...?

But at the same time the human factor also needs to be accepted and recognised. And as the parent of a transitioning child I know, at least from a personal level listening to my kid and how they feel; it's frightening how often these examples in sport are used as a reason to attack their existence. And then politicians, more than happy to feck around and steal, suddenly decide that gender is going to be to focus of their political campaigns - which aren't in any way divisive purely because hate brings them votes. And now the media report it because, if it isn't clearly already the talking point which it already is after public figures have been piggybacking off of it, it certainly brings the clicks to their website... But ultimately we all collectively begin to forget the most important factor. The Human factor...

Too often we all look through these situations through a lense that forgets that we're not just discussing "person A" or "person B". These are real people who are affected by often arbitrary decisions made by sporting - and political - committees that prefer to follow the "out of sight, out of mind" mentality without a single thought about how their actions affect the people they're challenging.

Until you've had to comfort and reassure a young kid at 4am because they don't want to live anymore, because all they see online is hate about people like them, it's difficult to appreciate that this is more than just about empty, unassociated names, on a news report.

If we're talking about souls then let's get the morality and humanity parts sorted out first.
Very powerful post, and such a necessary counterpoint to all those "why aren't there any trans men playing for the Denver Nuggets I wonder lol".
 
And funny enough, women had to fight for their rights for centuries, and now comes the next thing. They will fight this hard, once the brainwashing wears off

yeah this is why fascist groups turn up to support gender critical rallies

transphobia, like homophobia before it, benefits the patriarchy. men are more likely to be transphobic than women.
 
What that says is you don't genuinely consider trans-women, women. Usain Bolt had massive genetic, physical advantages over every other person he competed against. Should we have excluded him from competing?

I get the desire to protect cis women athletes, there is no easy or simple solution here, but not at the cost of denying an entire group of people their identity

Sport is never entirely fair because some of us have better biological conditions to compete at the very top and the more physical a sport is, the truer this statement becomes. So you're right, you probably could never have beaten Bolt in a foot race regardless of how much you trained. In a way, he's just more "biologically talented" than you.The division of sports competitions into tournaments for women and men is an attempt to match an athlete with athletes who have roughly the same biological preconditions. But let's be real, your biological sex is by far the most decisive factor in terms of "biological talent" for a sport. Muscle mass, tissue, hormones, etc. all "correlate" heavily with your biological sex. I mean, in martial arts competitions you often have weight classes or something similar and maybe something like that (only more refined with regards to the aforementioned muscle mass, tissue, etc.) could be a way of providing a non-gender related measuring criterion to create a fairer playing field but let's not kid ourselves, this would only lead to a) transwomen and transmen having their own respective competitions, however named and/or b) transwomen competing with cis men and transmen competing with cis women.

On a more general note, I think it will be important for the future that we don't confuse biology with discrimination. I know women who find it discriminating if somebody argues that women have lower performance ceilings in certain sports than men. Even if your biological sex is male and you identify as a woman, your biology will be different from a cis woman. That may not be fair but it is the reality. Humanity can (and absolutely should) only do its best to make society as fair as possible for everyone but IMO we shouldn't ignore scientific facts because of it.
 
Thankfully common sense is filtering through and trans women are being widely banned across sport in the female category. So we won’t get a biological man dominating women’s sport.
It's cool how transphobia is just A-OK on this here forum. Just fecking splendid.
 
I am not going to judge anyone's intentions in this thread, but surely you're all aware that keep referring to transgender women and biological males is something transphobes do all the time, right?
 
I am not going to judge anyone's intentions in this thread, but surely you're all aware that keep referring to transgender women and biological males is something transphobes do all the time, right?
Apparently referring to biological women as biological women is considered by some as transphobic, too.
 
I did. Yesterday. In this thread.
OK, that sucks, it doesn't invalidate what I said, though.

Every time I've listened to transgender women talking about this I always hear the terms cis women and transgender women. Since gender is being talked in a different way than biology, I think that's fair, so those are the terms I use.
 
I am not going to judge anyone's intentions in this thread, but surely you're all aware that keep referring to transgender women and biological males is something transphobes do all the time, right?
and?
 
OK, that sucks, it doesn't invalidate what I said, though.

Every time I've listened to transgender women talking about this I always hear the terms cis women and transgender women. Since gender is being talked in a different way than biology, I think that's fair, so those are the terms I use.
I use the same terminology when discussing trans issues in general society.

But this is about sports, where, to me, biology is what matters.
 
It's cool how transphobia is just A-OK on this here forum. Just fecking splendid.
Your allowed to disagree with an opinion and not be transphobic. For instance I disagree with pretty much all religions, cultures, sacred cows, doesn't make me phobic of any of them. If it fits in the eyes of others, I don't care.
 
I use the same terminology when discussing trans issues in general society.

But this is about sports, where, to me, biology is what matters.
So when you discuss this with a transgender women and she tells you she doesn't like to be referred to as a biological male, you keep doing it?
 
So when you discuss this with a transgender women and she tells you she doesn't like to be referred to as a biological male, you keep doing it?
I would politely tell them that I’m aware they don’t like it, but because of the rules of sport in my state, they have to be formally classified as such.