arnie_ni
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I definitely don't have the answers either that's for sure.It's not done because a boy says "I'm a girl", there's a years long process involving physicians and mental health professionals before it ever gets to the point where one would consider medical transition. Many children do desist and go on to identify with the gender they were assigned at birth. The goal isn't to make children trans, it's to identify those who are early and allow them the treatment that will allow the to be comfortable with themselves and lead happy lives, hopefully preventing years of suffering and anguish. If gender dysphoria persist into puberty (or into the years where one would enter puberty if on blockers) it's very likely to be permanent.
And to add, most places don't allow actual surgeries before they reach age of majority.
Not only their teen years, potentially significant parts of the rest of their lives.
I won't claim to know all the answers, I'm merely pointing to an available solution. I trust the professionals to know how best to go about it.
My wife works with a woman and her daughters best friend was born a boy but identifies a girl, she's 1st year in secondary school here in NI which I think is 11.
The kid has only just be allowed a mobile phone for example. I just don't know how you can honestly allow that kid to begin whatever it takes to transition.
My wife has no doubt the kid will eventually but at that age, I just wouldn't ever be able to wrap my head around it. Il