Got it. I'm sorry for your plight, and I think you much more at stake than most keyboard warriors here.
I believe the West has led Ukraine down the primrose path by putting NATO on the table and raising the stakes in the Cold War with Russia. Of course, I'm not condoning Putin's invasion for a second, but the West has promised Ukraine things it cannot deliver, and it's been a catastrophe for the Ukrainian people. The main constraint for Western support isn't funding; it's armaments. For example, Ukraine uses the PAC-3 Patriot interceptor in a month at the same rate the US manufactures in a year. The 155-millimeter artillery shells have backorders exceeding five years. While the US plans to produce 100,000 artillery shells per month by the end of 2025, Russia currently produces close to 500,000 a month, at 1/10 the cost. The US (and Europe) don't produce sufficient weapons to support Ukraine, Israel and potentially Taiwan - a reality more critical than political resolve or financial aid. And the slow response of Western manufacturers has allowed Russia to develop effective countermeasures for example t
he WSJ had a recent article basically saying that Russian electronic warfare has rendered many Western precision weapons, such as the Excalibur artillery round and Himars missile system, largely ineffective by disrupting their guidance systems.
At the end of the day, the aid package is not going to fundamentally change the reality on the battlefield. Munitions and manpower are crucial in warfare, and Ukraine is very limited in both. Regardless of how many checks Congress writes, we are constrained in what we can supply. Russia has the upper hand due to its superior production of armaments and larger manpower. Thus, this conflict should have never been allowed to happen, but it did, and now Ukraine will face the most severe consequences. Western politicians will wear Ukrainian flag pins and shout "Slava Ukraine," but these are empty gestures that require no real sacrifice. At the end of the day they all return to the comfort of their suburban homes with 2.5 kids and two cars, without any true skin in the game, while your country is devastated, with large portions of the population forced to flee, having lost everything.