Claymore:
If, as you say, this is the first time that this has happened -- it isn't as lots of players have actually sworn during interviews (Micah Richards, van der Sar, etc, etc), which is probably a more deliberate act -- then surely that merits a warning so that players know exactly what the FA deems as acceptable and unnacceptable?
Whether you agree with it or not -- and you're doing your best to create a distinction that most can't see -- it isn't entirely obvious that there is a substantive difference between swearing directly at the camera, swearing during an interview after a game, and swearing while celebrating, particularly as so many players have been caught by the camera, which completely removes any excuse that they didn't know about the risks.
Surely an incident that hasn't been dealt with before actually merits some leniency, precisely because there is no precedent to use as an example (or as prior warning)?
If the use of one of the smilies (the little green face that you used in your post to kietotheworld) had suddenly become frowned upon at the Caf without any clear warning, would you deem it more fair to be banned for your first usage, even though you didn't really know that it was now frowned upon, or for a continued usage, despite being warned about it several times? The answer to that should be obvious.
Like most supporters, I don't have a problem with the FA enforcing the rules, but they must be set out clearly and consicely, with as little abiguity as possible, and they must enforce those rules fairly and consistently, without reference to 'greater responsibilities' for high profile players and managers. I'd also prefer that they do it at the start of a season having made it clear to all of the clubs, players, and managers, that it was going to happen.
The arbitrary nature of the current enforcement, where they only have to make the same kind of lame excuse without real distinction or precedent that you are making, is not in any way conducive to either discipline or respect. That they can make those excuses, and that you will defend them, says nothing about whether it is ultimately the correct approach or not.