kouroux
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I disagree specifically with this part. For me this is exactly what football is all about, one of the main roles it plays in society. It is a game that is taken very seriously and used as a proxy for man's tribal instincts. It is all about "them" and "us". It is a place to channel your irrational hatred in a relatively safe and harmless way. When we are watching or just thinking about football we can feel and say things we wouldnt usually feel or say.
OK sometimes it spills over and there are still limits - see Kick Racism Out of Football. And it is good that there are limits. But does it really matter if Pete jokes that he wants RVP to get injured? I would say not. Even if he is not joking, even if he hopes upon all hope that he gets a career ending injury: so what? It doesnt make it any more likely to happen.
When Pete is done thinking about Man United and Arsenal, he can get back to his rational self and continue to be a good boyfriend / husband / father / neighbour / friend and all-round upstanding member of the community. I'd be lying if I said I have never thought irrational and ugly things about footballers from "enemy" teams. In the cold light of day, do I wish them or their families any harm? Of course not. But in the context of football, as proxy war or tribalism, I allow myself that irrational indulgence, without ever allowing it to spill into actions.
Football is just a vessel for channeling the uglier - but still natural - primal instincts people have. It is potentially dangerous because it can spill into racism, offensive chanting, violence etc, and that is all wrong. So it needs to be monitored, clearly that is why these ugly things happen around football. But I think it is better to have a place for it to be vented than to suppress it altogether, because these things will come out. I think of it like a social safety valve for these kinds of emotions and that kind of behaviour.
Massive tangent, anyway, Ill stop now.
I'm glad to know I don't have the same psychological issues as you and yet still enjoys football for what it is.A "vessel for channeling the uglier " , it's as if you're talking about pedophiles who are doing their best to suppress their sick urges