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Okay thanks.Webo was visibly upset and had to be restrained.
Okay thanks.Webo was visibly upset and had to be restrained.
It most obviously was: "You would never say 'that white man', you would say 'that man'. So why do you say 'that black man' when you mean a black man", I think this is the shortest and most obvious explanation of racism I have ever heard, and I compliment Mr Ba!
He's clearly using it, twice.
Maybe I'm missing something, but I haven't understood that he was claiming it's ambiguous. Or what makes you think he did?There isn't any ambiguity about usage of that term. I don't think it should be used in any sense, ever.
But context matters. White people have not been discriminated against in most societies. Therefore, my opinion is this:It’s not true though. Put a white man in the middle of a crowd of black men (all wearing the same clothes) and you’d look like an absolute idiot if you tried to single him out, verbally, without mentioning the colour of his skin.
Clearly, not all black people agree with this sentiment (as has been raised here multiple times), and I'm not saying they should. But many do, and I think that should take priority when choosing the language we use - especially since it is not difficult to describe people without reference to skin. (Or, for that matter, and unrelated to skin colour, to bodily features which might be considered negative for whatever reason.) I mean, even if there were a group of identical quadruplets with identical clothing, we'd find a way to single out a specific one among them.I'm raising my kids not to use that sort of descriptors, I agree with everyone above that it is inappropriate in that it singles out individuals for their race (whether or not with negative intent) and confirms race roles.
Referring to someone as being black is sometimes taboo.We are, hopefully, moving towards a reality where skin colour isn't treated differently from hair colour or the colour of the shirt someone happens to be wearing on a particular day, i.e. as an utterly superficial trait.
Even in that reality, however, it might be necessary to actually refer to skin colour - in cases where someone has to be described, for identification purposes.
Currently, we seem to be at a stage where the aversion to mentioning a pretty obvious aspect of a person's superficial appearance becomes...yes, what? Comical?
But he wasn't refering to Demba Ba as the black guy in the first place. It was the Assistant Manager/coach?Referring to someone as being black is sometimes taboo.
I think Ba was angry on a more prideful level because perhaps he felt the referee should know who the hell he is. He is Demba Ba! not 'some black guy'
Yeah. changed itBut he wasn't refering to Demba Ba as the black guy in the first place. It was the Assistant Manager/coach?
Race Caf the Racism Olympics edition.I absolutely agree with Micah on this. As commendable as it was for both teams to show solidarity and walk off together I think they've maybe picked the wrong hill to die on here. Like he said "Ignorant? probably. Racist? Probably not."
I think it's been lost in translation with the fact the Romanian word for black sounds fairly similar to the n-word. Because the controversy caused by it just seems a bit over the top.
It's sometimes difficult for people to understand how it feels. When you look foreign or out of place sometimes people will act in an awkward way, they will do things that they won't do otherwise it's as if you didn't matter, as if you had no consciouness and when you are the target it doesn't feel right. In this case, it doesn't seem like a case of racism but simply rudeness, you don't keep saying "that black guy" when you are at hearing distance of that person, similarly you wouldn't say "that fat guy", it wasn't needed and it lacks tact. The person at the receiving end knows that you are talking about them, they also know that you made no effort to talk to them or gain information about them before doing so.
Damn straight!It's sometimes difficult for people to understand how it feels. When you look foreign or out of place sometimes people will act in an awkward way, they will do things that they won't do otherwise it's as if you didn't matter, as if you had no consciouness and when you are the target it doesn't feel right. In this case, it doesn't seem like a case of racism but simply rudeness, you don't keep saying "that black guy" when you are at hearing distance of that person, similarly you wouldn't say "that fat guy", it wasn't needed and it lacks tact. The person at the receiving end knows that you are talking about them, they also know that you made no effort to talk to them or gain information about them before doing so.
I'm just a simple "giaour".
Really? I think what he said was wrong, simply that there have been worse incidents where the players could have done something like this but didn't. From what I understand this seems to be more of a misunderstanding that a outright racist incident.Race Caf the Racism Olympics edition.
Keep revealing yourselves lads.
Race Caf the Racism Olympics edition.
Keep revealing yourselves lads.
Yeah if the ref would come out and explain and apologize I'd be fine with it.I'm not actually saying the guy should be punished. If he comes out and says it was an unfortunate turn of phrase and can learn from it, case closed for me and I'm sure all involved would be OK with that. The problem is, just because some people aren't offended, others might be. Its possible you've never experienced discrimination and so being called Asian holds no negative associations for you. Its equally possible Ba or the coach could have experienced terrible racism, so being identified purely as 'black' by an official holds much worse connotations. This is why you have to be very careful, and those in positions of authority doubly so.
Shouldn't use a racial description in the face. I would mind if my colleague told another colleague "the asian guy will handle this" or if my boss said "hi asian guy come over". But if a colleague tells the delivery guy "yeah the asian guy there" just to be efficient I wouldnt mind and even if I did I can also understand why he described me like that. but then again it's a football pitch not a business setting.In a business setting, you try not to use racial descriptors. Simple as.
So I agree they should all be more careful and I hope they've learned to be more sensitive. Next time better to avoid this in such a setting.Completely took my response out of context. I meant wider world as in outside your own country and culture, when you are in a profession where you interact with people from another culture and especially when you are performing your profession in another country, understanding how you can be offensive and avoiding it is common sense, no?
Nothing about enforcing cultures, have no idea how you came to that conclusion.
MLK would be considered a racist Uncle Tom by todays woke left.
I wouldn't say that you'll get deemed a racist by someI feel this is being over reacted. We’re in very sensitive times though and anything can be perceived as racist even if it very much so is not.
I think yesterday was a big miscommunication but the way things are in the world right now I am not surprised people’s feelings were hurt.
I can understand both sides on this incident Tbh.
It’s not true though. Put a white man in the middle of a crowd of black men (all wearing the same clothes) and you’d look like an absolute idiot if you tried to single him out, verbally, without mentioning the colour of his skin.
This misunderstanding line you keep peddling is clearly the hill you’re going to die on. You’ve been at it all day. Why? Why are you so bothered on convincing people this was nothing racist and only a simple misunderstanding?Really? I think what he said was wrong, simply that there have been worse incidents where the players could have done something like this but didn't. From what I understand this seems to be more of a misunderstanding that a outright racist incident.
Its been funny seeing guys tripping over themselves to say black people overreact etc etc yet when o have presented real life examples and my life experience I haven't had one reply from someone with an attempt to understand. Or no one seeing the anger from demba ba and the assistant to see people are actually in pain. That's how you know alot of people genuinely don't want things to change at all.
It's sometimes difficult for people to understand how it feels. When you look foreign or out of place sometimes people will act in an awkward way, they will do things that they won't do otherwise it's as if you didn't matter, as if you had no consciouness and when you are the target it doesn't feel right. In this case, it doesn't seem like a case of racism but simply rudeness, you don't keep saying "that black guy" when you are at hearing distance of that person, similarly you wouldn't say "that fat guy", it wasn't needed and it lacks tact. The person at the receiving end knows that you are talking about them, they also know that you made no effort to talk to them or gain information about them before doing so.
You keep doing it.Really? I think what he said was wrong, simply that there have been worse incidents where the players could have done something like this but didn't. From what I understand this seems to be more of a misunderstanding that a outright racist incident.
He'd actually be told he's a MARXIST by the same people who said it then and who moan about "wokeness" today.
The first thing any anti-racism campaigns are labelled with as a smear is Marxist.
There are really big issues with "woke" virtue signaling but in this incident you have cultural connotations, language, context and a great deal of issues to untangle.
As an official he should have not said it. I don't think he is racist but the subtext is that again, as an official, he had 50 ways of identifying the person he was referring to.
I support both teams reactions fully. End of story.You keep doing it.
In this case what you think is irrelevant.
A man was referred to simply based on his race & didn’t like it but you want to talk about ‘worse incidents’ as if there’s a ranking system which is honestly ridiculous.
You’re criticising them reacting a certain way because you deem this situation better [you know the opposite of ‘worse’] than others.
That is definitely rude. Although I wonder if he (foolishly) assumed what he was saying would only be understood by the ref, as they were speaking Romanian? They had probably got used to speaking to each other during games without being understood by anyone in earshot.
Clear case of overreaction imo by Demba Ba. We dont have to agree . I guess he is subjected to a lot of racism in that racist country so that he couild be a bit extra sensitive. I think the world is at boiling point such that the line has become blurred.
Wouldn't say that's necessarily the right analogy for yesterday though - we're talking about a handful of people seated socially distanced for the coaching staff.
Not to say that proves racist intent, but that it was at least lazy and unnecessary to identify the guy by race.
This also reported as what the 4th official said:
Coltescu is alleged to have pointed out Webo to Hategan by saying: “The black one over there. Go and check who he is. The black one over there, it’s not possible to act like that.”
Let's see if that true/accurately translated, but quite frankly that does not sound professional in the slightest.
I'm surprised you choose to engage with someone who uses the term "snowflake". In my experience, it is a waste of brain cells 100% of the time.Mate, grow up.
Fast.
It's ridiculous to try and act like there shouldn't be some sort of "ranking system", to use your term, and to imply that every single example of possible racism is equal in severity to every other.You keep doing it.
In this case what you think is irrelevant.
A man was referred to simply based on his race & didn’t like it but you want to talk about ‘worse incidents’ as if there’s a ranking system which is honestly ridiculous.
You’re criticising them reacting a certain way because you deem this situation better [you know the opposite of ‘worse’] than others.