Yeah you're right about 2018 when I look back at the goals, I must be misremembering it. Maybe I'm thinking about Euro 2020 or something or conflating it with something else.
As for the foul, plenty in Argentina thought it was, journalists like Jonathan Wilson as well. It was controversial enough for a thread to be made that reached 9 pages, people to remember an incident in a game 10 years later and for the video to have more than 1 million views. I thought it was a reckless attempt to get the ball, getting the ball first doesn't excuse the dangerous follow through. Anyway, what happened happened, Neuer did deserve the World Cup for his performances that tournament.