So, the problem is it’s such a common greeting, lyric, word of bonding ? At least here in the states. I remember the argument used to be that people were “taking back the power” of the word , and it has all just caused cr@p, teally.
We had a kid in the states, a quarterback prospect signed with a University, singing along to a very popular song with two black teammates and caught on video. Lost his scholarship. He apologized profusely, All of that
The coach and Deans at two HBCUs (historically black collegiate universities) offered the kid scholarships to play QB at their schools (he was going power 5 SEC before), and the reasoning, which I found thoughtful was that what EVERYONE needed was more intelligent and thoughtful communication. Being a fan of cultural music does not excuse you from using terms, but my generation caused this by creating artificial divisions and popular lexicons based on your race and ethnicity. It got to the absurd point where people were trying to specifically measure wether people of mixed ethnicity were “black enough” “Latin enough” or “Asian enough for certain popular slang in multiple genres.
The whole thing has gotten ridiculous. And the record companies especially should be ashamed. It used to be a poignant addition to give reality to the experience in a song like “NY State of mind”; Nas. Now it’s every third word and trite, and it has to be confusing, especially to a non native speaker introduced to music he likes by teammates.
Like the HBCU dean I think communication and education is the key, and it’s time to get rid of gratuitous use of racist slang as “cool”