That's fine now, but if you had said "Do you have any specific instances?" we would have avoided the confusion. I don't think you are trying to dismiss my personal experiences, you just don't think it matters in this context and that's fine.
I will say it's not dangerous or wild if you've seen it firsthand or have any experience in those communities. I'm not sure about you, but where I grew up has a large, diverse immigrant population (West Africans, Mexicans, and South and East Asians predominately) and usually these families are extremely patriarchal, religious families. In cases of domestic abuse, sexual assault, or infidelity, the men (especially the head of the household) are almost unilaterally given the benefit of the doubt as those involved are usually more concerned about the reputation of the families rather than the well-being of the victims. It's usually worse in countries our parents immigrated from. Not saying this applies to every family, but if you poll people from an African or Asian (and probably Latin American) background, they will most likely tell you the same thing. I have had countless conversations with friends and family about this subject.