There’s a bit of a difference between some people (usually not the most understanding of folks) getting stupidly angry about someone who’s blatantly said something unintentionally hurtful (take your pick) and you taking an attitude of “I should just be able to say anything I damn like.”
The latter is usually someone just being a bit of a cnut and it rightfully gets highlighted when appropriate (if someone can even bothered to waste their energy on a typically ignorant person).
One of the most obvious problems now is people hiding under the phrase of “sure they call you racist/sexist for anything now” whilst they say blatantly racist/sexist things. Not everyone is a ‘snowflake’ because they call you out on it.
I don't go around offending people, or say anything offensive (neither racist or sexist), but it feels that all some people do, is trying to catch you saying or doing something that might offend someone.
If that's how you seriously feel you need to give yourself a slap. It's not hard to go about your day to day business without offending anyone. In fact it's pretty fecking easy. On the occasion that you do, just apologise, move on and learn from it.
Really don't understand why fear of causing offence is so debilitating to some of you, do you have Tourettes?
Tell you what, we'll try to help you out. What words are you scared of saying? We'll tell you if they're offensive and if so what you could replace them with. Black is ok btw...
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I slap myself on a regular basis, thank you very much!
As i replied to Minimalist, i don't usually say things that are offensive to people, so i rarely come in situations where i have to apologize, defend myself, or even slap myself.
I don't think i have tourettes, but i start to wonder sometimes, cause i say alot of silly stuff in real life (nothing to do with this though)
I know i tend to shy away from conflicts and arguments, that might be the reason why.
Snowflake. When I was young, we had to accept societal developments. Nowadays, people have the luxury of getting pissed off online for imaginary political correctness when playing chess.
When you were young? Doubt you're older than me, if you are, not much atleast.
I always treat people the same, no matter who they are, so i rarely get in trouble for saying non-PC things, so i should probably not have written the post about hoping this year will be less PC.
Just a bit frustrating reading shit online, in forums or newspapers, some of the things people are offended for, are just stupid, and in my opinion, they want to be offended, just to have an argument.