I’m all for equality. Ironically, I think the feminist movement being associated with pedantic nit-picking over words like postman and freshman does more to harm equality than help it.
Why. Was it nitpicking for the gay community to not like the use of poof and faggot? Language is far more important than we often give it credit for as it plays a major part in setting societal norms. Generally speaking I find that if a group object to the use of terms that don't apply to me, accepting that they are telling the truth and changing something that makes no difference to me is the rational and ethical thing to do.