I don't think we should be setting the bar there.
As long as the the despicable acts are committed in other countries, it's
not that hard after all.
Despite everything said afterwards (which I agree with), you still are.
Maybe it feels like something different only because this unfortunate tragedy is familiar to European culture and history, which you're obviously closer to and identify with. So far, at least
364 Ukranians have died in this war. Take a step back and look at it in context of other cultures.
For instance, there were more deaths in the
Jalianwala Bagh massacre in less than two hours than in the entire Russian invasion of Ukraine so far. A British brigadier and his troops walked in through the only entrance/exit of a large enclosure hosting a peaceful protest in Amritsar, India, 1919 and - unprovoked and without cause - opened fire. He kept his troops firing even as people fled, till they were out of ammunition. He did it
because he could.The UK tried to play down the death count since it was officially
taken only four months after the massacre, but at least 1500 people were killed that day.
To this date, the UK has never apologized.
As an Indian, it is my unfortunate inclination to assess other tragedies in the context of an event like this. But I know it's wrong, just the way it wrong for you to dismiss the deaths of
180,000 civilians in the Iraq war, or the
17,500 civilians killed in Yemen (hundreds of thousands dead indirectly), or the deaths of
47,000 Afghani civilians. These are all acts of aggression (not retaliation) that the US initiated - and doesn't include the
200,000 civilians killed in Hiroshima and Nagasaki.
Is one tragedy lesser than the other because fewer people have died? How do you quantify the consequences of war for a community, no matter how small or large? These questions are difficult to answer and I don't think we can truly compare one to the other - given the very different and unique effects each one has on the victims, their families, and their communities.
We tend to have an exaggerated view of tragedies close to us and tragedies that are given more media coverage. But no matter what the metrics and the context, I don't think there is any way to defend the historical atrocities of the US/UK just because they're taking the side you identify with in this war, much less dismiss them because of the biased you have of the current aggression. There are no good guys here, only a Darwinian struggle of power where the victims are always the ones who never wished to participate. We shoudn't downplay other tragedies (which you're doing, perhaps inadvertently) to justify why the current one is 'different'.
I guess it probably seems to you as if I would just go the convenient route but I don't think it makes sense to discuss crimes that are that long ago in this context. European countries were an absolute mess morally until the end of World War 2 and even things like the Vietnam war are already a liftetime ago. Of course massacres like the one you talked about are tragedies that the countries which committed these crimes should apologize for. But they are not really an indicator of how morally corrupt modern Western countries are, aren't they? And yes, it's human nature to be more involved when something regionally or socially close to you happens so in a way we're all hypocrites. I get that and it's very difficult to compare tragedies because of that. And I also fully, fully agree that tragedies in other parts of the world don't get the attention they deserve in the West.
Anyway, I believe we're right now mixing up many different dimensions in this discussion.
For me, the first dimension is
intention.
Personally I believe that the intentions for the recent wars of the US and NATO can only be described as ambiguous. Of course the notion of the "war for oil" is very popular and has much truth to it but it also oversimplifies the matters most likely. There are many influencing factors behind these actions. When there are mass killings or brutal wars raging on in whatever part of the world, the society intuitively feels a drive to "do something". People just don't want to sit and watch while regimes commit terrble crimes to their own society. The US is therefore often confronted with decisions for which there is no right choice. Intervene and you will definitely be criticized, do not intervene and be criticized for inaction. But that's only one side of the medal. The other is that the US is a pretty aggressive player of geopolitics (destabilizing governments, etc.) and always considers what's to gain for themselves as well, which is the root of cynical labels such as "war for oil" or "we bring you democracy" that definitely have truth to it. Still, I think it is also wrong to suspect that motives like liberating populations from oppressive government plays absolutely zero role in their decision making - it most likely does and even though many tragedies came by it, it is still generally a morally reasonable intention - as I said, they'd also be criticized for inaction as well in many cases (see ISIS when Obama was pressured to intervene when he hesitated long time).
In contrast, there's nothing morally reasonable from Russia's perspective. One could argue that they want to protect and extend their system of government (autocracy or Putinism or whatever you want to call it) the same way the US wants to protect and extend democracy but in my opinion, that's comparing apples with oranges. Russia feared Ukraine because they were on their way of becoming a successful democracy and there was a risk that the close ties between Russians and Ukrainians would lead to an exchange of culture and thus could spark a desire in the Russian population as well. With his war, Russia seeks to prevent his own population from gaining freedom. This isn't ambiguous, this is a morally corrupt intention to begin with and there really is absolutely no redeeming factor to it. And this is the aspect without any room for interpretation, the same way human rights should not be discussed.
So while the US is in no way a saint (and I'm only "defending" them because I think they're overly criticized in here, I usually find myself criticzing the other side about the wrong doings of the US in such debates), I think Russia had much more sinister reasons to start this war.
The next dimension for me is the
situation in which the country found itself at the time of the invasion.
Ukraine was country at peace and on a very good way to becoming a functioning democracy and growing economically. It's save to say that non of the casualties and the destruction would have happened if the Russians didn't invade. This simply can't be said about the countries the US invaded in recent history. Let's not forget that Saddam Hussein committed genocide, started wars, suppressed large parts of his population and did many other terrible cruelties for example. And it didn't start with him, the conflict between sunnites and shiites has been pretty bloody for centuries. So in a way, the US invaded countries for which one could believe they needed an intervention (whether or not this was the case is another question), Russia invaded one that definitely needed none. And in anticipation, yes, I see that Putin might argue Ukraine needed an intervention but then again it comes down to protecting a system that suppresses freedom and violates human rights. That's why I bring the governmental system in it so often. Putin's image of what justifies an invasion, the vision he was for the life of those he wants to occupy is very dark.
And this dimension IMO also includes "what's at stake". Putin effectively re-ignitied the cold war and escalated the threat of a nuclear war. And that's the one thing that everybody on this planet should prevent at all costs. Every other tragedy that has ever happened pales to this scenario.
And then there's of couse the actual
crimes committed.
There's no debating the West has done terrible things - not only in the distant past, but also in Iraq, Afghanistan and the likes. Absolutely no denying that and this is the topic that makes the West look very, very bad. Because regardless of situation and intention, it's no difference to the victims and their relatives for which reasons and in which context it happened. Still, it seems that after his "soft approach" failed and it became more and more clear that he couldn't achieve his goals in Ukraine, it became a strategic dimension of Putin's war to target civilians. That's something I don't think NATO countries have done. There's a difference between giving the instructions to bomb evacuation corridors, officers or soldiers doing committing crimes autonomously and causing actual casualties in the sense of "collateral damage" (hate that phrase). I know it's same same for the people who died but when judging crimes, it is important if it happened intentional, recklessly or by accident.
Finally, there's also the element of
accountability and redemption.
And yes, I know that many people never got what they deserved but at least in the West there's accountability to some degree. There have been convictions, there's free press that investigates and doesn't look away, there's societal pressure on punishing people who did something so wrong. And Western leaders can't act completely recklessly because they want to be reelected as well. It's far from perfect, no doubt, but at least it's a start. Nothing of that applies to Russia. The reigning system has to implode for Putin to be held responsible. You know that none of the people who actually gave the instructions to bomb evacuation corridors after they were agreed on or to bomb nuclear plants, hospitals or even schools/kindergardens will face any consequence if they aren't killed in the war itself.