But more importantly, it irritates me how all agency is constantly placed only with the west - as if Russia is some kind of automaton that goes through the motions and it's up to the west to respond correctly. But if Putin in 2000 when he got to power would have properly turned west, things would have played out very differently. Given Russia's population size and national resources, it could have a become a dominant force in Europe, turning the geopolitical situation around quite significantly. For example, working closely with Europe would effectively have removed part of the American attraction for European countries, diminishing the US's influence; it would have made NATO redundant; and it would have made Russia look like an attractive partner to the former Warsaw Pact countries and USSR states (instead of the bogey man it now is).
I know Putin didn't do that and the west had to deal with what did happen. But why would the west be only to blame for that? And if Putin was going to continue Cold War power politics, why couldn't NATO do the same, and look for expansion during Russia's time of weakness?
Also, from that perspective, it could even be argued that NATO has done quite well; cause now virtually everything in Europe that Russia could claim is on NATO's side - including Ukraine, for which Russia is now making a last-ditch attempt with which they might wreck themselves as much as anything else. From NATO's perspective, Ukraine's peace and prosperity might be a small price to pay for that achievement.
It's all just as cynical and unpleasant of course (although the Russia-turning-west scenario sounds quite nice actually); but I do think there are other perspectives than the rigid thinking in Cold War blocks that seems to permeate these quotes.