100% agree with you here.
Lets be totally rational here... if de Jong or his agent got on the phone to United or EtH, and said "look, Frenkie doesn't want to come to United, he loves Barca and we're working towards a solution on him staying". Do you honestly think United would keep working on this? Do you think they'd waste their time on pursuing a target that has no intentions of coming, regardless of if Barca are forcing him out?
I know people think United are stupid, but fecking hell man, have a bit of common sense on this one.
Plus this is why Romano posts these updates... look at how much of a meltdown he's caused here. Imagine that on twitter with god knows how many United fans swarming his page. He's loving this