I've really been turned off Fifa this year - I'm comfortably playing at, at least, seasons level 3 on FUT and seasons mode but I find the games a chore. It's so defensive and tactical - defenders get a HUGE edge; people can go to ground in a slide tackle and be on their feet making another tackle quicker than an attacker can control a pass.
Aerial balls are almost always won by the defending team and the power control/direction of passes/through balls is, seemingly, totally random. Matchmaking settings have been tightened so much that, after a point, you only ever play in games where you're grinding out results (rather than experiencing a spectrum) and pot shots and speculative long, diagonal balls seem to an infinitely higher rate of success than a simple, 5 yard, pass.
I play every game in "ultra-attacking" mode just to try and open things up a little bit.
I'm not getting beaten any more frequently than normal - I'm just not enjoying the experience.
As a side note, playing against AI is especially bad - I didn't pay my money to watch AI pass the ball across their defense for the majority of each game. I know that a piece of software that can respond to my every input can keep me from gaining possession - I want it to entertain me, not bore me.