Malazan is... difficult. If you want to read a book where you care about anything that happens, then it's not for you - I read the first half of the first book and while it was all very interesting, I couldn't have cared less about any of it. I'll give it another go some time, because it's obvious that there's a lot of potential for a great story there, but it's
so difficult to get into if you want good characters.
Hobb's writing is among the best (though she does have a penchant for cat metaphors that gets really irritating once you notice it!), and her characters are streets ahead of anyone else. Her books usually aren't perfect - and the less said about the Soldier Son trilogy the better - but they're extremely enjoyable. Liveships comes close to being perfect for me, though not everyone likes it since they just want more Fitz.
Re: well written books, have you read any of
Long Price,
Gentleman Bastard,
Ketty Jay, and (to a lesser extent)
His Dark Materials? I know we've chatted about them before, can't remember which of them you've read (if any). Those are all much better than the average imo. It's definitely a problem that a lot of lower quality fantasy gets published, makes me wary of starting anything new since there's a fair chance it'll be painful to read.