Originally posted by True Treble Reds:
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If you read all my posts in this thread you'd now I was called a Paki all through my life in England 'til I was 19ish. I learned that it was the ignorant and uneducated that called me that in order to hurt my feelings, but I won't rehash what I've already said.
I used to go to a Paki shop on the corner of my street in Sheffield all the time. Am I racist for using that name in that way? In college I knew a kid from Afghanistan and a kid from Pakistan, they were both called Aziz and everyone referred to them as Afghani Aziz or Paki Aziz. All we did was drop the stan! Neither of them gave a shit and they are both still friends of mine today.
The Uzbek’s, Tajik's and Afghani's don't have a problem with dropping the stan and my Pakistani friends don't either. Why do you?
Selective morality seems to be rampant on these boards and you are the CEO. When it suits ya you get on your moral high horse and damn everybody at will.
btw, in answer to your question...
Does being called a Manc grate in a similar manner to "Paki"? A word associated with hatred?
When a scouser calls me a manc it does grate on me as much as when I was called a Paki.
I dislike intensely hearing the scouse accent at the best of times and when I am called a manc by one it is usually laden with hate anyway.
I consider being called a Paki in a derogatory form an admission of ignorance by the messenger rather than an attempt at insulting me. They don't have the vocabulary or intelligence to form an acceptable comment thus stooping to the insult level. I feel nothing but pity for them.</strong><hr></blockquote>
I'm neither "on my high horse" or "damning everyone at will"....I'm commenting in a discussion and you don't like my point of view....
And I agree...it is the ignorant and 'kin stupid who stoop to phrases like "feckin paki", I'm sure not everyone can rise above it in a similar manner to yourself...that doesn't make it right
Its clearly not the same re language used with people you know well...I call my mates feckin nobends..I'd expect a different reaction from a stranger if I said similar