I think you have a point. If he wants to leave, then you'd look back to how LvG has always spoke about letting players go if they're not committed to the cause and how he wouldn't force unhappy players to stay. In which case, if ADM asked to leave, we wouldn't be so bitter about it, and LvG wouldn't address the AWOL questions in the manner that he has. Moreover, di Maria would have no excuse to skip pre-season, he's still employed by MUFC, after all.
I've always felt that we don't want him here and that we're trying to rid a player, who LvG believes doesn't fit into his plans. Maybe we are pushing him out. It would make sense, too. We have a club willing to pay a lot of money for a player deemed surplus to requirements, to which the player has responded by striking.
If he wants out, and we're willing to let him go, then why strike?
“I’m always like that. When you see my history – that’s part of my philosophy. A player is not just a man who kicks the ball from A to B. Also, his environment is influencing him."
“So, I shall always be open for that conversation but I know also the commercial interests of the club and we have to respect that. You cannot give a lot of money for a player and then next season put him out of your selection."