If you think that its only modernised in terms of technology and architecture, then that is your opinion.
I guess the following laws are technology and architecture?
Decriminalizing out-of-wedlock relations
Alcohol is now allowed
Women can wear what they want now
With the Middle East, its not just changing laws, its changing the culture too, this takes years, its not something that can happen overnight.
What we have seen is progress. People always look at the negatives, acting as if the West is perfect.
Yeah I'll keep my focus on all those unjust laws and lack of human rights, even though I know I as a non-gay male I can go to a bar and drink alcohol without fear of being arrested or worse. If that's "looking at the negatives", so be it.