giggs-beckham
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You said that after my message. Nice attempt at backtrackingI literally just said alleged victim. Stop looking for things to be outraged by.
You said that after my message. Nice attempt at backtrackingI literally just said alleged victim. Stop looking for things to be outraged by.
So it's guilty until proven innocent. I dont think there's much evidence for it although I could be wrongSorry but the fact that he wasn't convicted doesn't mean nobody was hurt. It means the alleged victim refused to testify.
I was writing it as you wrote yours. Stop looking for things to be outraged by.You said that after my message. Nice attempt at backtracking
Where did I say he's guilty?So it's guilty until proven innocent. I dont think there's much evidence for it although I could be wrong
Racist abuse is fine but allegedly hitting someone isn’t. Not where I’d draw the line personally, but ok.Yes, what's your point? It's clearly not the same.
I’ve never understood why he isn’t in the hall of fame when Tony Adams is … who spent 4 months in prison for drink driving.
Racist abuse is fine but allegedly hitting someone isn’t. Not where I’d draw the line personally, but ok.
I think you don’t have to like or overly celebrate Giggs in the hall of fame but it makes a mockery of the whole thing for him not to be there, he was Mr Premier League and based on playing history should have been the first one in and on his own.With Adams it'd be about public contrition. I remember Adams being vocal about his issues, as many footballers were in the 1990s. He also became a patron of various abuse charities and such.
With Giggs, there is not so much as that. No addiction, like George Best, to explain, not excuse, his actions.
Taking injunctions out to protect his public image, conducting affairs with a sibling's wife and later in court for assault. His behaviour makes people uncomfortable.
Personally, I'd remove Terry from the hall of fame and keep Giggs out, also.
I'd not run a hall of fame, anyway, but two wrongs do not make a right.
This is it. If you’re going to admit people through the lens of their private life, then it isn’t a premier league hall of fame - it’s a popularity contest and the whole thing falls down. Either do it right or don’t bother with it.I think you don’t have to like or overly celebrate Giggs in the hall of fame but it makes a mockery of the whole thing for him not to be there, he was Mr Premier League and based on playing history should have been the first one in and on his own.
Who said this?Racist abuse is fine but allegedly hitting someone isn’t. Not where I’d draw the line personally, but ok.
You said John terry being in the hall of fame is ok while Ryan Giggs should be excluded because there’s levels to this stuff.Who said this?
You said John terry being in the hall of fame is ok while Ryan Giggs should be excluded because there’s levels to this stuff.
Please take the time to read what I've said before posting...Sigh...that's not what I'm saying. The question was asked as to why Terry was inducted while Giggs wasn't. I answered it. It's quite simple. It doesn't mean I think Terry should have been inducted himself and it doesn't mean that I'm minimizing what he allegedly did.
You said John terry being in the hall of fame is ok while Ryan Giggs should be excluded because there’s levels to this stuff.
You said what Terry did wasn't as bad as GiggsPlease take the time to read what I've said before posting...
There are two sides to every story, and while I don’t like commenting on Ryan’s personal story I think some context is needed to explain the facts.
Rohdri had not talked to his dad for 20 years. Ryan only spoke to his Dad once in that time. His dad bumped him into him in a pub and asked Ryan to buy him a beer. He later sold that story to the sun and tried to make Ryan look bad. I think it was the story which went. "I have cancer and my son hasn't called yet to see if I'm ok. He doesn't actually know because I don't see him but he should".
His dad used to beat his Mum. They've never had a relationship and I believe Ryan sees Ferguson as the closest thing to a father he has. Rhodri was in jail for two years as well. It's a struggling family. His dad’s scum.
The difference is though John terry was caught on camera doing it.Both found not guilty in court but everyone still thinks both are guilty.
you contradict yourself with each postPlease take the time to read what I've said before posting...
Because it was his own brother's wife! How is this even a question??It was shitty but the story was more complicated. Giggs' brother's girlfriend was a former stripper and I've heard that she cheated on him with a lot of other football players as well. She slept with a lot of different people and footballers, so I am not sure why Ryan only gets the stick.
It was a reality check for Ryan's brother to not date her anymore and he later remarried and now has a couple of kids and is happily married. He's been making a lot of money out of this scandal and he's done so many yt videos about it. He's been profiting out of this situation and it's his main source of income.
What Ryan did was shitty and he's a flawed human being but there were a lot of footballers who were serial shaggers. Not sure why Ryan is the only who gets the stick about it.
I strongly disagree with that assertion and I am genuinely surprised you would make such a claim in all seriousness.Almost every absolute bellend has absolute bellends as fathers and/or mothers. It's how they are made more often than not.
I strongly disagree with that assertion and I am genuinely surprised you would make such a claim in all seriousness.
Almost every absolute bellend has absolute bellends as fathers and/or mothers. It's how they are made more often than not.
I may have slept with my sister-in-law for a year but at least I haven't bought a knock off football shirt.
Why? It's well known childhood environment effects how a person grows up. It's certainly a big factorI strongly disagree with that assertion and I am genuinely surprised you would make such a claim in all seriousness.
You said what Terry did wasn't as bad as Giggs
Please show me where.you contradict yourself with each post
I said that there are levels of seriousness and I said that, personally, I think that headbutting your girlfriend, threatening her and coercively controlling her is a more serious offence than calling someone a 'black c*nt'. That is absolutely NOT to minimize the other offence - racist abuse is completely unacceptable, disgusting and should never be tolerated or excused in any context. I have never suggested otherwise.You said what Terry did wasn't as bad as Giggs
I dont assume giggs is guilty thats stupid to just assume it to be true without evidence. John Terry is on tape committing the act. Surely you can see the difference.I mean, yeah?
One was accused of racial abuse, the other was accused of two counts of assault against women and coercive and controlling behaviour.
Assuming both were guilty, the latter is worse. As the sentences both would have faced if found guilty make clear.
Agreed. At the end of the day and for the most part, people can make a choice not to be one and break the cycle. They hold their childhood up as an excuse to hide behind.Almost every absolute bellend has absolute bellends as fathers and/or mothers. It's how they are made more often than not.
While I cant speak to Terry or Barton families specifically, my own observations suggest the opposite dynamic is equally common. I have encountered many ill mannered individuals who came from kind and gentle families and on the other hand many upstanding individuals who were raised by difficult parents. So, I completely reject the notion that children inevitably become “utter twat” as you put it simply because their parents were. Its actually an unfair assumption that also dismisses the efforts of good parents whose children made poor choices.Really? Almost every utter twat I know has at least one shitty parent. People are not born arseholes most of the time, they're made.
We're talking about John Terry in this thread as well, take a look into his family. Or Joey Barton.
I don’t disagree with your point, but this hasn’t been my experience in the society I grew up in. Every person others might call ‘bellend or twat’ actually came from a privileged and stable family background. Many of my friends who grew up in toxic home environments have all become successful and well mannered adults.Why? It's well known childhood environment effects how a person grows up. It's certainly a big factor
Ryan Giggs is celebrated in football circles,It's interesting who football fans decide to ostracize and who they will look the other way on. This isn't a defence of Giggs as I too soured on him, it's just curious how someone like George Best remains largely celebrated in footballing circles despite being guilty of far worse than Giggs.
While I cant speak to Terry or Barton families specifically, my own observations suggest the opposite dynamic is equally common. I have encountered many ill mannered individuals who came from kind and gentle families and on the other hand many upstanding individuals who were raised by difficult parents. So, I completely reject the notion that children inevitably become “utter twat” as you put it simply because their parents were. Its actually an unfair assumption that also dismisses the efforts of good parents whose children made poor choices.
I am not suggesting parenting has no impact and although I dont know if there are studies on this subject, my opinion is rooted in my own experience. Take my family. We are 12 siblings of 7 brothers and 5 sisters raised by the same parents. My father wasnt a bad person but he struggled with addiction. He never came home sober, smoked openly around us and loves gambling. We lived in rental homes, constantly moving due to financial instability and attended free government schools. My mother who is a housewife depended entirely on his income. As you can imagine, daily arguments were our normal. Yet every one of us became educated and successful. 10 of 12 of us are now married with families of our own and 4 of us became medical doctors. None of us inherited our father habit of drinking, smoking or gambling. We since bought our mom a house and she now travels freely to canada, US and germany to visit her kids and grand kids. I credit for who we become mainly to our mom influence but equally to our community the church and neighborhood that shaped us. Many of my friends from similar backgrounds share similar stories. Perhaps western societies is different but this was our reality.I didn't say all kids of utter twats inevitably become utter twats. I said most utter twats have one or two utter twats for parents. Plenty of people have crappy childhoods and aren't arseholes but most arseholes had crappy childhoods. Most, not all.
I can't believe you think it's "equally common" for bad parents to raise good kids. That's saying that parenting has zero impact.
Its a small sample size to be honest. I dont disagree with your overarching point howeverI don’t disagree with your point, but this hasn’t been my experience in the society I grew up in. Every person others might call ‘bellend or twat’ actually came from a privileged and stable family background. Many of my friends who grew up in toxic home environments have all become successful and well mannered adults.