Too Much and Never Enough: How My Family Created the World’s Most Dangerous Man
In this intimate exposé, Donald Trump's niece, Mary, describes growing up in the Trump family. She is a clinical psychologist by trade, so the book is full of psychoanalysis, focusing mainly on the patriarch of the family, Fred Trump, and his treatment of his children and extended family. She paints a picture of a family bereft of emotional attachment, describing Fred as incapable of love, which leads to his children growing up lacking empathy towards others.
The first part of the book is seen through the lens of Mary's dad, Freddy, who was Fred's oldest son. Freddy was groomed to inherit Fred's property empire, but he's constantly sidelined by Fred, who is apparently loathe to give him any real responsibility, leading to Freddy's disillusionment. Freddy leaves Fred's company, Trump Management, to become a pilot. This doesn't go down well with Fred, and they have a pretty fractured relationship from then on. Freddy becomes an alcoholic, his life collapses around him, and he dies in his 40s.
Throughout the book, Donald is mentioned only briefly at times (usually in comparison to Freddy - Mary thinks her dad wasn't given a chance by Fred, whereas Donald had everything handed to him on a plate). He's not really a central character in Mary's life and, when they see each other at family gatherings, he could be seen as a kind of vacuous, and a bit of a knob, but essentially harmless.
The last 20-ish pages deal with Trump as president. She describes the person the whole world saw at the Covid briefings - a narcissistic idiot who blamed everyone else for his own failures - but it's almost retrospective. During the book, she regularly claims that he wasn't a great businessman, nor was he self-made, but her stories of her childhood don't tally with her opinion of Donald as president. I expected lots of examples of Donald being an absolute cnut to people, but he actually does the odd favour, and comes across as quite benign. Certainly not the monster that she describes at the very end.
Anyway, it's an interesting insight into the family dynamics that lead to the oompah loompah sitting in the Oval Office, but I don't think it's the home run it could have been.
6.5/10