I'm not sure what we can do, but one thing I know probably would make a difference is if the fans did a bit more. You watch matches at Anfield, or the Camp Nou or pretty much any Italian stadium when the ref starts making some bad decisions and the pressure gets ratcheted up, it becomes deafening. Of course refs aren't supposed to react, but they're human beings.
We just kind of roll over and shrug now.
Personally I'm a bit disappointed in Ole for not saying anything. If he comes out with the comment that the poster did, something like: "People say we didn't create enough, twice our number 9 is through on goal and twice he is stopped illegally - so maybe we create but how do you overcome that?" it puts pressure back on the team for next time. At present we're the easiest club in the land to treat badly. All the other fans are delighted, we're used to it so stay quiet and Ole smiles and says these things happen.