Ole's been dealt a bad hand. Nobody currently, and I mean nobody, would be able to handle such a small squad which is lacking quality all across the park. It's a bit harsh to bash him for it. Your ire should be on Woodward not getting the replacement striker Ole wanted if Lukaku was sold, or a midfielder when Herrera was let go.
Ole can only do so much in those instances. However, rather than complain, he's simply got on with the job. I'd rather have a positive manager in these situations than the opposite. We'll see how we get on towards the end of the season, but I will say this: We're already 3 points up on the corresponding fixtures from last season and we're up against an Arsenal who haven't really fixed their issues at the back, and an impotent Chelsea without the one player who made them semi-respectable since 2015.
The choice of pen takers is such a minor thing, which has been snowballed because of Neville's hysterics. Guaranteed nothing would have been said if it was scored, and even during the game; did you see any hint of an argument or discord among the players when Pogba went up to take it? If not, then how is that a negative? If anything, in this era of increased analytics and scrutiny having multiple penalty takers is a positive as it would throw the keeper's plan out the window. Having the manager choose such things is also increasingly irrelevant. Look at Pep, he didn't even bother to choose City's new captain, he let the players decide. Is that a worrying sign for City also?
This is the first I've heard of free kick takers being an issue, tbh. Rashford has been our designated FK taker for the last few seasons. Ronaldo has been even worse at them for at least the last 5 years, but he still takes them every time they come up for Juve, Portugal, and Madrid. When the free kicks have been indirect, the ball has been going towards the back post more often than not, towards Maguire. Again, I don't see much wrong with the tactic of putting the ball in towards the best header of the ball at the club, and a 6'5 CB.
Corner kicks, again; I've not heard anyone say a word on these until this post. Pereira and Mata have been the designated set piece takers when on the field.