As Darmian tells it, his footballing role models shifted in line with these positional changes – from Clarence Seedorf, to Alessandro Nesta to Paolo Maldini. After being promoted to the first-team squad in 2007, he had the chance to train with all three.
“To say that I tried to steal something from them would be pretentious,” he told Gazzetta dello Sport in January. “Let’s say that Clarence taught me what personality is, Sandro elegance and Paolo professionalism.”
Darmian possesses all three attributes in abundance, though the latter might be his defining characteristic. In discussing life after football, Darmian has said he would be interested in becoming an interior designer, noting that: “A designer is good if he understands what people want from him, he does not impose what he wants.”
These are words to make a coach go weak at the knees, although we should note he has had other career ambitions. At the end of his first trial at Milan, the 10-year-old Darmian was asked what he would like to do if he was not to become a footballer. “I replied ‘a pizzaiolo’ for no real reason. Maybe just because I really like pizza.”
Stories such as that one led Gazzetta’s Andrea Elefante to remark on Darmian’s “profound normality”. During their interview, the journalist presented the defender with a set of cards representing different topics of conversation and invited him to discard the three he did not want to talk about. “I’ll get rid of fear, politics and vices,” replied Darmian, “because I don’t have any.”
From another man such words might have sounded insincere, but from Darmian they are credible. Off the pitch, he is strait-laced to the point of almost seeming a little rigid. He keeps a tidy house, abhors tattoos and cites bad drivers and his long-term partner Francesca’s habit of smoking indoors as the things that stress him out the most.