I am a rape survivor. Convince me that I should support him playing for MY club.
It's not just YOUR club, it's a club which many people follow. I don't think you can be convinced to change your views and I don't expect you to have to. What you've faced is terrible and you get my deepest sympathies.
I can respect your opinion and accept it just like other posters can respect and accept the differing views of others too. Its a divided subject and far too many people are trying to impose their views on others which isn't right. Just like my views shouldn't be imposed on you - we can agree to disagree which more people should be doing in this thread in my opinion. Whether we voice our views once or 300 times, we're unlikely to change the strongly held opinions of other posters.
I don't think people should be weaponsing your experiences myself and using that in an argument as it potentially can turn the thread quite ugly and make things rather distasteful. For the same reasons I don't intend to attempt to convince you to change your views either.
I've read enough over the last few days to come to the understanding that most people have strong opinions on the issue whether they'd welcome a return or not and I've seen very little evidence of anything which people have said in this thread which has swayed peoples opinion to change. I've only been watching the last 10 or so pages, so not sure if people's views changed earlier in the thread? From what I've read I think that's unlikely.
I don't personally agree with people arguing as though they're adamant and certain that Mason is guilty of alleged crimes either. Whether we like it or not we don't know what explanations were offered, what further evidence was available and which statements were provided. Anyone making an assumption he is innocent or guilty without access to thst information is simply making assumptions and that's fact. For every pro greenwood poster offering their reasons why these statements suddenly make greenwood not guilty there's another anti greenwood poster explaining how it's all a massive cover up and deciding what the evidence consisted of. But neither party knows and making assumptions for strongly held opinions doesn't help.
Whether he did it or not I support his return to football and would support his return to united. However if he did commit alleged crimes I'd prefer him to serve whichever sentence is worthy first. Unfortunately this won't happen now so all I can work off is where we're at and be honest.
That doesn't mean you should hold that view. And I respect the views of everyone else and don't intend to try and change them. I hope the same respect can be given for my views. If someone wishes to challenge specifics then I'm more than happy to try and answer. But there has to be alot more of an effort to agree to disagree in this thread in my opinion. It's the inability to do that by both sides which makes things toxic in my view.
And lastly, sorry again for your past experiences and the impact which that has had on you. I truly hope you're doing better now and I apologise if my views offend you in anyway but I'd rather be honest.