Obviously not. I thought it was clear enough, but let me clarify it even further: I'm saying that people are using the following "logic" as an actual argument in these debates: "They're back together, she has clearly forgiven him for whatever he did, so why shouldn't we?" Which is deplorable as feck, yes - because it ignores (willfully or not) a - for lack of a better word - classic trait of abusive relationships.
I don't like to push anecdotes on people, but a close relative of mine kept doing just this: forgiving someone who abused them, getting back together, rinse and repeat. If it weren't for the fact that the bastard in question was finally arrested and locked up for abusing someone else (too), this sad pattern probably would've continued to this day.
Of course Greenwood and his partner could end up in a happy, normal relationship - they are very young, after all. And I sincerely hope they do. It's the nature of this line of argument I have problem with.