sepulturite
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It really doesn't.Because it sounds incredibly childish.
It really doesn't.Because it sounds incredibly childish.
Me either. I stopped listening to Michael Jackson and R. Kelly, despite them writing and recording two of my favourite ever songs. I don't eat at Gregg's anymore, even though I used to love a Gregg's sausage roll, and I will not support a team that plays Greenwood.
The best way to handle it would've been him going to prison after the first time he did it, regardless of my mums feelings. That way he wouldn't have been able to do it again, and again, and again.
Nobody is saying that the victims of crimes can't forgive but that shouldn't really be relevant when it comes to punishment, prosecution or even public opinion, especially when it comes to domestic violence.
You either did the crime or you didn't. What the victim thinks after the event doesn't change that. If someone rapes or abuses a very forgiving person, it doesn't make their crime any less awful, not one iota.
The bar for legally proving something happened is different, eg OJ, Michael Jackson etc...People might not be convicted or something but their apparent guilt (rightly or wrongly) will be held against them. It's always been thus, it's just probably just a bit more shouty in the age of social media.
Dude, I'm a child sex abuse survivor and have spoken a lot about my perspective on this matter, so kindly, go feck your post
And for people talking about it being strange a DV survivor going back to their abuser, look up Stockholm Syndrome
I agree with you. But what happens in the scenario like MG? Where the evidence isn’t enough to charge and then imprison. That’s the question here isn’t it? I doubt had MG been imprisoned anyone here would be saying anything other thburn him from all books and never speak his name again.
I never watch the BBC anymore, and Will Smith and Kevin Spacey movies, and I'm going to stop using my apple phone. I'll start posting on redcafe by pigeon.Me either. I stopped listening to Michael Jackson and R. Kelly, despite them writing and recording two of my favourite ever songs. I don't eat at Gregg's anymore, even though I used to love a Gregg's sausage roll, and I will not support a team that plays Greenwood.
I agree with you. But what happens in the scenario like MG? Where the evidence isn’t enough to charge and then imprison. That’s the question here isn’t it? I doubt had MG been imprisoned anyone here would be saying anything other thburn him from all books and never speak his name again.
It’s not just a bit more shouty though and that’s the whole problem. It’s a lot more shouty. And more permanent. Social has exponentially amplified the dangers of mob justice. While I have no problem with people calling him a POS I think that if he is being allowed to play football it’s a bit unfair to kick him, his partner and their new born baby out of their hometown into a different country when the charges have been dropped.
I agree SS is a real thing. That’s why I think you have to deal with that factor legally and not just in public opinion. That’s why I brought up the possibility that maybe we shouldn’t allow DV reporters to get back with their partners legally without some psychological intervention to ensure SS is not at play here or else you’re setting up a scenario where if DV is reported and not charged - the only available recourse is mob justice where any accusation is basically a guilty verdict in public’s eye.
I mean as a general rule that’s pretty silly though, isn’t it? There are tons and tons of examples of where society/others should step in to protect the rights of others. In some cases, victims aren’t even aware that they are being wronged or abused by those more powerful.How about a simple rule of thumb: you’re not allowed to be more outraged than the victim. How’s that for size?
Are they?!
UNITED KINGDOM — The United Kingdom’s Commons Justice Committee reported that 18 to 25-year-old offenders should be kept out of adult prisons because their brains are still developing.
The BBC reported that due to brain development, which occurs until age 25, the age group has the greatest potential to not offend again.
Although the government said “significant efforts” have been made to prevent juvenile offenders, the screening to identify what help is needed needs to improve.
The report said that a person’s "temperance - the ability to evaluate the consequences of actions and to limit impulsiveness and risk-taking" is still developing until age 25.
I agree there’s a lot in the loan that is about “protecting his value”, and the January break-clause in the loan makes sense in that respect because we’re essentially paying him to put himself in the shop window elsewhere.
Equally, when he was being touted to Lazio, a club who could actually afford his wages, the talk was of a free transfer. However he’s ended up moving to a club that couldn’t afford to pay even half of his wages realistically. I’m not naive enough to believe that if he goes away and scores 10+ goals this side of Christmas that we’ll recall him in January and still offer him to clubs for free, but I do think the club recognises the strength of feeling on the matter and would look to sell him rather than reintegrate him and by extension, recoup some of the money they’ve been paying him to sit at home.
My personal view is there is too much water under the bridge at this stage to bring him back into the team whatever happens, and as such he’s now essentially a tool that can enable a good chunk of spending next summer - academy prospect so full profit in FFPs eyes obviously.
What happens? He gets to play football, earn millions of £s, live with his partner & kid and hopefully they all lead a long and happy life.
Everyone else gets to think what they want based on what they have seen and heard.
"The heir to the Greggs bakery chain has been convicted of a string of sex offences against boys.What’s Greggs done?
That’s why I think you have to deal with that factor legally and not just in public opinion. That’s why I brought up the possibility that maybe we shouldn’t allow DV reporters to get back with their partners legally without some psychological intervention to ensure SS is not at play here or else you’re setting up a scenario where if DV is reported and not charged - the only available recourse is mob justice where any accusation is basically a guilty verdict in public’s eye.
Knock yourself out, but I think your post is bellendI never watch the BBC anymore, and Will Smith and Kevin Spacey movies, and I'm going to stop using my apple phone. I'll start posting on redcafe by pigeon.
"The heir to the Greggs bakery chain has been convicted of a string of sex offences against boys.
Colin Gregg, 75, from Gosforth, Newcastle, had denied indecently assaulting four boys while working as a teacher, beginning in 1963.
A jury at Leeds Crown Court found him guilty after a trial lasting almost a month. He was told jail was inevitable"- BBC - 3/3/17
But I'm talking about my opinion, other people are talking about their opinion. Public opinion is not a stand alone thing, it's all the personal opinions added together. It doesn't need guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.
Knock yourself out, but I think your post is bellend
But he has basically been run out of his hometown. His partner and child are also basically being “banished” from their hometown. That just doesn’t seem fair to me. We can’t just say “oh well he’ll still make money so we can just forget about him and for the sake of our conscience he will not be allowed to play for United again”. Or I guess we can but it doesn’t sit right with me for some reason.
Of course all of this is clouded by the fact that he is potentially a 100+ million pound striker that we are being forced to give up for peanuts, at a time when good strikers are very scarce. And I’ll be lying if I say I would have the same fervour in defending Antony for instance.
No it really isn't. Newsflash a lot of people in the public eye are cnuts, so you choosing what you watch and what you wont watch Is hypocrisy."The heir to the Greggs bakery chain has been convicted of a string of sex offences against boys.
Colin Gregg, 75, from Gosforth, Newcastle, had denied indecently assaulting four boys while working as a teacher, beginning in 1963.
A jury at Leeds Crown Court found him guilty after a trial lasting almost a month. He was told jail was inevitable"- BBC - 3/3/17
But I'm talking about my opinion, other people are talking about their opinion. Public opinion is not a stand alone thing, it's all the personal opinions added together. It doesn't need guilty beyond a reasonable doubt.
Knock yourself out, but I think your post is bellend
It wasn’t a decision made by Man United though. Man United decided to bring him back. The Man United that apparently know more about his than me and you by your own admission."Banished"? Have a word!
The only thing he can't do is play for Man United and that was a decision made by Manchester United who apparently know more about what happened than me or you.
He could stay in Manchester picking up £70K a week (or whatever he's on) and be the worlds best dad and boyfriend for the next few years if he wanted to.
As I mentioned before, public opinion is just the amalgamation of individual opinion, it's not it's own thing. If you don't like public opinion, convert the individuals.When that public opinion is causing him to not be able to work at a place his employer has found him to not be guilty through an internal investigation, I think it reaches too far. You’re welcome to think whatever, but people don’t just stop there do they? They cause public pressure through the social media mob, then opportunists get involved, politicians get in to score political points and all truth is lost in this outrage frenzy.
I have my own personal experiences and access to evidence that define the way I percieve things. When things cross my personal red lines, I cut them out of my life.No it really isn't. Newsflash a lot of people in the public eye are cnuts, so you choosing what you watch and what you wont watch Is hypocrisy.
As with Mason Greenwood, yes it doesn't look good, but nobody really knows what happened that night and probably never will, but if you want to believe he's guilty without proper procedures that's your problem.
A definative club statement saying "He didn't do it. The police dropped the charges we've investigated and we're happy with what we found. He didn't didn't hit her, hurt her or abuse her. We back him completely and welcome him back into the side." was all it would've taken.It wasn’t a decision made by Man United though. Man United decided to bring him back. The Man United that apparently know more about his than me and you by your own admission.
The decision was made by the frothing social media mob that basically decided to abandon all sense of proportion and guilt evaluation by publicly dragging United’s name as being DV apologists and then some politicians getting involved. Why did they not respect that United knew more than them?
It wasn’t a decision made by Man United though. Man United decided to bring him back. The Man United that apparently know more about his than me and you by your own admission.
The decision was made by the frothing social media mob that basically decided to abandon all sense of proportion and guilt evaluation by publicly dragging United’s name as being DV apologists and then some politicians getting involved. Why did they not respect that United knew more than them?
He didn't do the initial charges he was arrested forA definative club statement saying "He didn't do it. The police dropped the charges we've investigated and we're happy with what we found. He didn't didn't hit her, hurt her or abuse her. We back him completely and welcome him back into the side." was all it would've taken.
You can make your own mind up on why the club took so long and eventually decided not to back him. If you think it's people on Twitter then ok. I personally don't think you would write off that much money/talent if you thought someone was innocent.
Do you know why so few rape cases go to court? Because for many the only evidence is witness testimony. It amounts to he said she said. Charges are usually dropped because the CPS decide there isn’t enough evidence to convict. It is nigh on impossible to win a case when the only evidence you have is one persons word against the other.Neither is acquittal by the court. All that says is that the evidence was not enough to declare him guilty. That’s no better than evidence wasn’t enough to charge him. In fact your scenario is even worse since the CPS clearly feels the evidence is enough to charge and go to trial which means they are at least convinced of guilt.
“then realise there is no opportunity to win a conviction so could drop the charges.”
So you mean that CPS think a court will acquit you right? How’s that worse than, CPS think there’s enough evidence to convict and then the court doesn’t?
The order of innocent to guilty in law goes as follows:
1. Completely innocent - no arrest no charge
2. Arrest but no charge
3. Arrest and charge then charges dropped (where MG is)
4. Arrest, charge, trial, aquittal (what you consider a better scenario to above which I say is just wrong)
5. Guilty verdict
Once you’ve been arrested, there is no completely “declared innocent” anymore. Every step that goes forward means more people in the system think you’re guilty and are willing to proceed further. The earlier the process stops due to lack of evidence, the higher the chance of being actually innocent (but never being “declared” innocent). This line of “it’s better to be charged and brought to trial than charges being dropped” is completely batshit.
A definative club statement saying "He didn't do it. The police dropped the charges we've investigated and we're happy with what we found. He didn't didn't hit her, hurt her or abuse her. We back him completely and welcome him back into the side." was all it would've taken.
You can make your own mind up on why the club took so long and eventually decided not to back him. If you think it's people on Twitter then ok. I personally don't think you would write off that much money/talent if you thought someone was innocent.
Stop it. He's not innocence
The tape proven it.. he's lucky he grovel back to his GF during investigation and impregnated his GF and made her drop the case.
And he's not jailed, he's not even getting a fine, the club just feel repuged by his attidue just as so many fans and just dont want to see him in our jersey.
He's still free and hell he even still receiving salary
I mean, do you honestly listen to that audio and conclude he's not guilty of some sort of domestic abuse? I find that very difficult.
The presumption of innocence is part of legal mechanisms to protect people who are being accused of a crime, that's it, it's not an absolute truth that people have to follow in random conversation.
Regardless of what courts say, I'm sure you think some politicians are guilty of some wrongdoing or even crimes and you'll keep that idea regardless of what the justice system says. That's because the presumption of innocence doesn't apply to citizen's opinions.
Do you know why so few rape cases go to court? Because for many the only evidence is witness testimony. It amounts to he said she said. Charges are usually dropped because the CPS decide there isn’t enough evidence to convict. It is nigh on impossible to win a case when the only evidence you have is one persons word against the other.
Are you saying in the hundreds of unconvicted rape cases, the cases that don’t even go to court, they didn’t happen? All of those men are ‘declared innocent’ because the only evidence is the testimony from the witness? You said “Charges being dropped is as close to “declared innocent” as the legal system gets.”
Going to court and being acquitted in the face of evidence is as close as the legal system gets to declaring innocence. Even then in the case of sexual assault the water is murky.
Charges being dropped just means the CPS didn’t have enough evidence. Not the accused has practically been ‘declared innocent’
These are extremely violent images and audio of abuse we are talking about here. Material that has yet to be explained, and their existence has never been denied. Many feel that as a community club and as a player of a community club, United and Greenwood have a responsibility to properly address this material. Many feel they didn't.The decision was made by the frothing social media mob that basically decided to abandon all sense of proportion and guilt evaluation by publicly dragging United’s name as being DV apologists and then some politicians getting involved. Why did they not respect that United knew more than them?
"Based on the evidence available to us, we have concluded that the material posted online did not provide a full picture and that Mason did not commit the offences in respect of which he was originally charged."
Direct quote from United's statement which its basically what you asked them to do but would never accept as sufficient.
I didn't say they are declared innocent - I clearly said nobody is ever declared innocent.Do you know why so few rape cases go to court? Because for many the only evidence is witness testimony. It amounts to he said she said. Charges are usually dropped because the CPS decide there isn’t enough evidence to convict. It is nigh on impossible to win a case when the only evidence you have is one persons word against the other.
Are you saying in the hundreds of unconvicted rape cases, the cases that don’t even go to court, they didn’t happen? All of those men are ‘declared innocent’ because the only evidence is the testimony from the witness? You said “Charges being dropped is as close to “declared innocent” as the legal system gets.”
Going to court and being acquitted in the face of evidence is as close as the legal system gets to declaring innocence. Even then in the case of sexual assault the water is murky.
Charges being dropped just means the CPS didn’t have enough evidence. Not the accused has practically been ‘declared innocent’
These are extremely violent images and audio of abuse we are talking about here. Material that has yet to be explained, and their existence has never been denied. Many feel that as a community club and as a player of a community club, United and Greenwood have a responsibility to properly address this material. Many feel they didn't.
Women and young girls watch football, play football, support club football. Women's safety should be one of the very top priorities for the game of football. This case and others in the news right now at club and international level suggests that it isn't being taken seriously enough.
Dismissing criticism and justified anger in this cheap way is fecking crap.
Give it a rest. You didn't have to add this self-righteous nonsense to make your point.I don't believe you would cut any those of those individuals /organizations out of your life. I don't think that you would have the will power
A definative club statement saying "He didn't do it. The police dropped the charges we've investigated and we're happy with what we found. He didn't didn't hit her, hurt her or abuse her. We back him completely and welcome him back into the side." was all it would've taken.
You can make your own mind up on why the club took so long and eventually decided not to back him. If you think it's people on Twitter then ok. I personally don't think you would write off that much money/talent if you thought someone was innocent.
I stopped driving cars, using cell phones, or any product made abroadI never watch the BBC anymore, and Will Smith and Kevin Spacey movies, and I'm going to stop using my apple phone. I'll start posting on redcafe by pigeon.
Exactly, we don't. And now that that has been established perhaps we can stop posting about their "kinks" and "what the both of them were into" because it's really pathetic and of no value.
How stupid am I, I actually thought this would go away or at least die down, how wrong I was, the defending of him is IMHO shocking.
I honestly think my days watching United are numbered, because I think the club is paving the way for him to come back, does not matter if you agree with me or not, my opinions have not changed.
If he comes back I will not watch a match with him in the squad.
I agree. It's quite depressing.
People keep saying this like it’s relevantThis is a rubbish post, where on here Has anyones comments justifies violence towards anyone? People have kinks and fetishes and behind closed doors is up to them.If anything I find it depressing people feel it’s ok to get the pitchforks out based on an audio clip. At the end of the day he is still with the girl, yes domestic violence is real and I in no way at all condone it, support it or like it, again love isn’t black or white. CNC is a a very problematic kink for people to get involved in, and yes we can expect more cases to come in the future.
But it isn't really irrelavant as well, don't you think? I mean, of course Stockholm Syndrome and all this, those things exists and they are part of most of those DV storylines but I think, it is pretty far stretch to just assume, it would be the same in this very case. I mean, it could but we can't just assume. The girl isn't some random stranger with no past, she has a family and a social circle. I am sure, they have made sure she knows the potential dangers and pitfalls.People keep saying this like it’s relevant
Please just drop the fetish angle. You've mention it in practically every post you make on the subject, others have mentioned it too. I think it's obscene and you seem obsessed by it. Either way it's out there now so you don't have to keep bringing it up. It needs no more elaboration and you certainly can't provide any. Can you please just stop it.This is a rubbish post, where on here Has anyones comments justifies violence towards anyone? People have kinks and fetishes and behind closed doors is up to them.If anything I find it depressing people feel it’s ok to get the pitchforks out based on an audio clip. At the end of the day he is still with the girl, yes domestic violence is real and I in no way at all condone it, support it or like it, again love isn’t black or white. CNC is a a very problematic kink for people to get involved in, and yes we can expect more cases to come in the future.
A definative club statement saying "He didn't do it. The police dropped the charges we've investigated and we're happy with what we found. He didn't didn't hit her, hurt her or abuse her. We back him completely and welcome him back into the side." was all it would've taken.
You can make your own mind up on why the club took so long and eventually decided not to back him. If you think it's people on Twitter then ok. I personally don't think you would write off that much money/talent if you thought someone was innocent.
This is a rubbish post, where on here Has anyones comments justifies violence towards anyone? People have kinks and fetishes and behind closed doors is up to them.If anything I find it depressing people feel it’s ok to get the pitchforks out based on an audio clip. At the end of the day he is still with the girl, yes domestic violence is real and I in no way at all condone it, support it or like it, again love isn’t black or white. CNC is a a very problematic kink for people to get involved in, and yes we can expect more cases to come in the future.
Fully agree. The false equivalences and volume of horrendous takes are depressing.The contortions going on in this thread to fold genuine concerns about violence against women into some mob led media conspiracy with a political agenda is appalling.