Come on mate. One player has a history of throwing his team mates publically under the bus, forced his way out of clubs by playing the media multiple times, was regularly caught being upset with team mates dcoring instead of him, was sent off multiple times for unfair behaviour and so forth while the other has a legit claim for being the fairest elite player ever despite also being the most fouled and roughed up, elbowed and cynically fouled like few others. And you are all like "let's just day both are idiots" because he hit back at the Dutch after they displayed some of the most unfair behaviour seen this tournament?
There are enough sticks to beat Messi with but this is none of them. The legit reasons to assume he is indeed an asshole are not football related let alone his on pitch behavior. That's rather his ethically questionable sponsorships, the tax evasion or the CO2 output of his private jet.