I strongly disagree with the last clause of your final sentence (because it makes no logical sense) but understand the first part of your post. I just can't relate to it. Feck everyone else. All the enjoyment I get from football is from watching my own team play well (with occasional schadenfreude from watching rivals play badly)
My POV comes from experience, I have always had little satisfaction in beating a diminished or clearly inferior opponent. I like competition and I like strong competition otherwise I'm borderline miserable.