Assad is a brutal dictator who much like his regional peers will often employ heavy-handed and violent methods to stay in power. ISIS are quite something else though - they're a macabre doomsday cult who genuinely see no moral confliction with massacring anyone who doesn't fit their niche and extreme take on Islam. You can't even compare them. Ask the Syrian people if they'd rather live under Assad's autocracy or ISIS' medieval theocracy, heck ask anyone in the world who isn't an ISIS sympathiser.
The Syrian people don't want Assad. I know Syrian people, and trust me, they hate him with every fibre of their being. And you tell me - what is the difference between Assad and IS? The least you can say about IS is that they are fairly recent, so the death toll isn't even near the likes of Assad junior and senior. There were up to 40,000 killed due to the Hama massacre. Do you think the sons and daughters and survivors have forgotten that? Bashar has killed and killed and killed, at my last count, 400,000 have been killed during this Syrian conflict. Like I said before, whatever quantifiable metric you want to use, there is no way you can say IS have been worse than Bashar. In fact, even the most depraved crimes by IS have been following from Bashar. By intangible, unquantifiable metrics 'macabre doomsday cult', 'no moral confliction' etc, then you might have a case, but for documented evidence that we can all see with our eyes, there is only one 'winner' here, and you know who it is, and I know who it is, but you're not willing to admit it.
Let's not be disingenuous here, the only reason IS are so much more notorious in the public eye is because they want an audience, and they're the perfect pantomime villain for Western eyes. No one in the West wants to admit or realise that their Western educated, secular, suit wearing, beardless banner of democracy Bashar al-Assad is worse than the 'medieval backward crazies' IS. We need to understand and accept that Bashar is the real issue here.
Your point about the minority sect ruling over the majority is an interesting one. Though I don't recall you echoing the same sentiments regarding Saddam's minority rule over a Shia majority who've suffered immeasurably under his 25 year tenure, ditto for the Bahraini monarchy who's minority rule has only been consolidated using ultraviolence and the help of the Saudi military.
I said it wasn't a great idea. And my justification is thus - would the Assad family kill as readily and indiscriminately if they were ruling over an Alawite majority population? I'm not so sure. And I agree with you regarding Saddam. I'm not a fan of these dictators using any means necessary to keep control. But I am also vehemently against the US going in and destabilising it further.
The Middle East is a mess, and we're going round in circles here. One side calling the other Rafidi. The other side calling them Wahabi. Where does it end? I think the worst thing that happened for the Sunni Muslims was the abolishment of the Caliphate. In my eyes, the end of the Caliphate divided us and led to the state we're in now. But this is a whole different rant, for a different day, so I won't go into too much detail about it now.
Furthermore your point about Gulf Arab's humanitarian efforts is absolutely correct - its a hollow gesture. Ask them if they'd take anyone in and its a different story. You have to remember that for these people money is obsolete and dispensible, its a culture which is accustomed to doing this:
I did a bit more research, and it's not as hollow as I thought. I'll make a separate post in the Refugee thread and tag you in it to show the extent the Saudi gov't has helped.
But going on the abundance of wealth - well, yea, they're so rich they've lost their sense. I agree with you. But you have to remember, this is the 1% of the people, who unfortunately control the whole land, and it's not exclusive to them, either. It's not exactly shocking as it happens in every single country. It's nothing new. It happens here, but we call them upper class right wing etc. There's a reason these Gulf emiratis elites are better known as 'bedouins with barefeet', because that's essentially what they are. Desert people who stumbled onto unimaginable wealth, competing to try and outdo one another in indulgence.