Silva
Full Member
It's always been there. Long before your dad was a glimmer in his dads eye.So where has this social uprising from the minority groups originated from then ?
One of my closest friends wears a hat. I'm not sure why that matters.You see, one of my closest friends is a very successful sales manager who works for a major blue-chip company. He & I met some 20 odd years ago at a media sales conference in Harrogate. He's one of the most positive, inspirational people I've ever met. His peers & subordinates all have the highest respect for him & his strong 'can do' attitude. He has a terrific sense of humour & an ability to shrug of setbacks & negativity. We both have a lot in common insofar that we're both a similar age - he's actually a few years younger than me at 55 - We both came from similar deprived areas. South London for him & north Liverpool for me. Started work at aged just 15, because working class people like us simply didn't go to university. Even if we got the grades required our parents couldn't have afforded it. Both of us were fortunate enough to eventually work for companies that paid for us to study, & obtain, a degree that was relevant to our respective job titles. The only thing we don't have in common is that he's black & I'm white.
All I can see is "Woe is me, why do kids who have it better complain"Can you see why some people from an older generation might be struggling to accept this 'victimhood status' from these so-called minorities ? Can you see why some of us can't accept this 'you've never been through what I've been through' mentality ? Because it cuts both ways. They've probably never had to sleep in a bed that's infested with bedbugs that feast on you every night, & have coats used as makeshift blankets on cold nights. It's that perception thing again you see. So when I've gone through my life having accumulated a large group of friends who all come from a diverse range of backgrounds, cultures, & ethnic groups. & when I don't hear any of this 'poor little me' narratives from these same people. I take it, that like me, & many others, they've taken on the challenges that life has thrown at them, overcome the hurdles, & made a good life for themselves based purely on the fact that they are responsible for most of what they achieve.
You'll be dead long before we know what they've made of their lives, so take that shit out of here.It's all about attitude & state-of-mind. If you've been brought up in an environment where you're led to believe that the odds are stacked against you, then it's fairly obvious that you're going to struggle to make much of your lives. Those 2 young kids in the video I posted are living proof of that. & I personally think it's very sad.
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