SqueakyWeasel
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Why would you need a 'safe space' to go to while someone held a lecture you weren't attending? Are such spaces also required for times when there's something on TV that might trigger you despite you not watching it?
Sexual assault survivor hotlines are available 24/7 and act as a safe space for people when they experience some emotional setback or need someone to talk to.Why would you need a 'safe space' to go while someone held a lecture you weren't attending? Are such space also required for times when there's something on TV that might trigger you despite you not watching it?
He did say "and corresponding protests" tbf.
Sexual assault survivor hotlines are available 24/7 and act as a safe space for people when they experience some emotional setback or need someone to talk to.
You're being ridiculously condescending considering what we're talking about here. Physical safe spaces and support groups for sexual assault survivors exist too.So you mean there wasn't really any need for an additional one?
But the same group who felt the need to protest against someone saying things they didn't like, were also the ones then saying they needed a safe space.
No they weren't. Some protested, and 2 or 3, other - different people - opened a safe space for sexual assault survivors.But the same group who felt the need to protest against someone saying things they didn't like, were also the ones then saying they needed a safe space.
How many Mexicans are actually offended in the slightest by someone who isn't Mexican wearing a sombrero at Halloween though? There's no way of telling but I doubt it's very many of them.It doesn't have to be done with the intent to hurt, hidden or otherwise. If the people who are being stereotyped don't like it then surely this is more than good enough a reason not to do it?
How many Mexicans are actually offended in the slightest by someone who isn't Mexican wearing a sombrero at Halloween though? There's no way of telling but I doubt it's very many of them.
If I wanted to dress as a Mexican, why on earth would I choose to dress as a non-Mexican, South American icon? Because all South Americans are the same?That's not actually the point, and even if we did have a number, who's going to ascertain whether its enough?
If you want to dress as a Mexican there are dozens of famous Mexicans and other South American icons, celebrities, tv show characters, drug cartel members etc.
Why insist on wearing a caricature of an entire country of people?
If I wanted to dress as a Mexican, why on earth would I choose to dress as a non-Mexican, South American icon? Because all South Americans are the same?
Im not being serious by the way, I get the point you are making. Having said that, Im sure there would be people who would be offended by someone dressing up as a drug cartel member, which could be perceived as another form of racial stereotype - and perhaps a more negative one than a guy in a sombrero.
If I wanted to dress as a Mexican, why on earth would I choose to dress as a non-Mexican, South American icon? Because all South Americans are the same?
Im not being serious by the way, I get the point you are making. Having said that, Im sure there would be people who would be offended by someone dressing up as a drug cartel member, which could be perceived as another form of racial stereotype - and perhaps a more negative one than a guy in a sombrero.
That's not actually the point, and even if we did have a number, who's going to ascertain whether its enough?
If you want to dress as a Mexican there are dozens of famous Mexicans and other South American icons, celebrities, tv show characters, drug cartel members etc.
Why insist on wearing a caricature of an entire country of people?
People who need somewhere to be listened to and supported meeting for an hour or two. There's not much else to it.What is so insulting about a caricature of a country though? I would have thought that going as a cartel member would be a lot more insulting.
@Silva
In what way do you see the safe spaces you describe as being analogous to AA?
Given that you could (presumably) walk around for an entire day in Mexico and not see a single sombrero, I'd argue you're not mimicking an entire country or culture there either. You're just wearing a hat that's synonymous with a particular country. Just like a kilt for Scotland, for example.I understand that but if you were to dress up as say Pablo Escobar, you wouldn't be mimicking the entire country and culture of Colombia, you'd actually be dressing up as a famous historical figure. I think people would find more issue with the glorification of Escobar considering the crimes he committed, than taking offence.
People who need somewhere to be listened to and supported meeting for an hour or two. There's not much else to it.
And a bowler and umbrella for England or (if you watch Family Guy) terrible yellowing teeth. That's more offensive than a hat!Given that you could (presumably) walk around for an entire day in Mexico and not see a single sombrero, I'd argue you're not mimicking an entire country or culture there either. You're just wearing a hat that's synonymous with a particular country. Just like a kilt for Scotland, for example.
Sure, but beyond that that you're going to somewhere you won't be judged and where the people will understand your specific struggle. Even the people who don't buy into the whole 12 step thing can benefit from AA. It's exactly the for LGBT societies et al. And you have to remember different safe spaces serve different purposes, AA folk for example will more likely struggle if someone is walking around trying to give them a pint - as opposed to hearing about something that upsets them.AA is the working of the twelve step program. If you are likely to get triggered by hearing about traumatic life events it is possibly the worst place you could go to as well.
Given that you could (presumably) walk around for an entire day in Mexico and not see a single sombrero, I'd argue you're not mimicking an entire country or culture there either. You're just wearing a hat that's synonymous with a particular country. Just like a kilt for Scotland, for example.
What is so insulting about a caricature of a country though? I would have thought that going as a cartel member would be a lot more insulting.
Yes, just like I get very offended by the Boston Celtics badgeProbably the most prominent campaign against cultural appropriation(/racism) is against the Redskins. And I can't help but side with the protestors on that one. Redskins is what native Americans were derogatorily called during the genocides and the team using the name and symbols they do does kind of take the piss.
Yes, just like I get very offended by the Boston Celtics badge
That's because you're too scared to mentionI object to Adam Ant more generally.
Do they?Or Notre Dame negatively stereotyping us as violent thugs.
Sure, but beyond that that you're going to somewhere you won't be judged and where the people will understand your specific struggle. Even the people who don't buy into the whole 12 step thing can benefit from AA. It's exactly the for LGBT societies et al. And you have to remember different safe spaces serve different purposes, AA folk for example will more likely struggle if someone is walking around trying to give them a pint - as opposed to hearing about something that upsets them.
Another example of a safe space would be this reddit, now, most of us have zero use for it - but it serves as a helpful place people can go and share their experience with those who understand them.
And the truth is, when you see a safe space, or look into why those who opened it did - they suddenly make a great deal of sense. It's only the vague, non-specific ones that don't actually seem to exist that are absurd.
What's the appeal in caricaturing an already marginalised group? This is what I don't understand.
You're being ridiculously condescending considering what we're talking about here. Physical safe spaces and support groups for sexual assault survivors exist too.
Seriously dude, you need to get some fecking empathy.
I think he just reminds me a bit of Gary Glitter.That's because you're too scared to mention
That he spends his cash on looking flash and grabbing your attention.
So long as they serve as a support group rather than a echo chamber for political ideology then I can't disagree.
There is no appeal to me but I don't quite follow why there is a difference in caricaturing a marginalised group or the dominant group so long as it isn't done in mean spirit.
For several years now, I’ve had a dark and fairly unusual hobby. When I’m alone and bored and the mood strikes me, I’ll open up my laptop and head for a particularly unsavoury corner of the internet.
No, not the bit you’re thinking of. Somewhere far worse. That loose network of blogs, forums, subreddits and alternative media publications colloquially known as the “manosphere”. An online subculture centred around hatred, anger and resentment of feminism specifically, and women more broadly. It’s grimly fascinating and now troubling relevant.
What the feck are you talking about? Who do you think runs so called "legitimate" support groups? It's not elected officials you know. It's just random people who've decided they want to help out. The only difference between student run ones and ones in the so called real world are that the student ones are run by students.You've just summed up EXACTLY the problem I have with this stuff, it's not about empathy towards everyone, it's about artifically enforced empathy by a self-selected group of enforcers towards certain groups who are deemed worthy of empathy, while those who fall outside it don't receive even a moments consideration or care.
If someone is deemed to hold opinions that don't satisfy the often ludicrously high (and occasionally extremely questionable) moral standards held by certain groups, they are treated as repellant evil caricatures who must not be listened to, allowed to present their own views, and certainly not engaged in any kind of intellectual debate. This kind of nonsense is absolutely anti-scientific, anti-intellectual and frankly authoritarian, and it's peddled by people who gain their apparent authority by little more than popular opinion amongst their equally self-important peers.
There certainly are times and places where a 'safe space' or equivilent is hugely valuable and indeed vital. There are equally plenty of times and places where protesting against abhorrent views is completely justified, but I'm damned if I'm going to support any individuals or groups that try to shut down discourse or debate, or create an environment where not conforming to the common group-think is enough to ruin reputations and careers.
We need to talk about the online radicalisation of young, white men
With the appointment of Breitbart News’s chair to Trump’s staff we need to be clear about the links between misogyny, racism and neofascism on alt-right websites
More:
https://www.theguardian.com/comment...ight-manosphere-mainstream-politics-breitbart
Just wondering about this: do people object to folks (like, say, singer Adam Ant) using appropriated imagery & clothing-styles because of their respectful admiration for marginalised groups?