I wouldn't go as far as saying you're unintelligent, but I don't see why you aren't grasping the simple per-capita facts.
Let's say there are two parties celebrating their birthdays in a restaurant. Party A is a two people, a couple, and between them they have two pizzas, two sides and a bottle of wine. Party B is eight people, and between them they have four pizzas, four sides and two bottles of wine.
Now who are the biggest eaters? It's clearly party A, who between them eat twice as much per person as party B. However, in your logic it's the opposite way around, and Party A should be able to carry on consuming as much as they're accustomed to until Party B consume less than half the amount they are currently consuming. All the while crying about how Party B need to clean up their act!
Now can you see how nonsensical your approach is?