I think we arent alone in the universe. But that intelligent life is so rare and spread out in space and time that the chances of us meeting them is very low as nothing can travel fast enough to get there and our civilisations wont last long enough...
Would love to be wrong though.
It is quite possible that we are not alone in our galaxy, considering the number of potentially habitable planets being discovered.
What is really fascinating is to think logically about what another so called intelligent life form might look like.
And when you consider the human form, a brain that is protected by a scull, sense organs high up and close to the brain, bipedal to allow hands to be used for a variety of functions and hands with articulating thumb and forefinger, it is quite easy to think that this is close to an optimal configuration.
Nature is very good at evolution without wasting energy and doing things in the most efficient way.