How do people like the Hazaras figure in this scenario, or those who want to give their daughter an education? The list could go on, but I guess it's clear what I mean. You took care not to treat Afghans as a homogenous group in your posts, but you haven't adressed those on the other side of that scenario's dividing line so far.
I'm not able to say how representative this is of the population as a whole, but it is definitely a thing. Nevertheless, this may say something about how bad the current situation is, but not really much about the desirability of alternatives.
What you describe was true for 1990s Taliban rule as well, a state of affairs you said you would have wanted to continue. Initially they had considerable support, in large part because people were hoping for some kind of stability after the horrors of the civil war. But they were increasingly hated by a lot of those people for their medieval practises and sheer brutality in enforcing them (in addition to those who never had anything to hope for from their rule), and that included conservative-minded people and Pashtuns as well.
I guess the bottom line is this: The situation in Afghanistan was so horrible for so long that, to many people, any change soon seemed better than the status quo. But after a while each new situation became the status quo that was hated for good reasons. To the best of my knowledge, this also applies to the Americans and the current Republic, who have featured in both roles of that play. Is there anything to the scenario laid out in the two quotes at the top that makes you think it could be a way out of this, and not just another episode along those lines?