My mother received the grand total of £7 per child each week when raising us. £7.
Hey Steve, didn’t get a notification for this message for some reason. Not sure what my mother got for us, Similar I guess but will check, the housing we had was pretty good though.
Safe to say though Steve it’s a lot more today than when we were kids.
It was out of necessity though after she left the old man, however now it’s a life choice for
some - not all - so that goes to show the massive change over the last generation or so.
I have dozens of friends who are 2nd/3rd generation unemployed. I’ll give you one example, perhaps my best mate at school.
This lad was the best footballer in the school, the town probably, one of those lads that’s good at any sport they play the instant they try it. Fit, able, could turn his hand to almost anything.
Started on the weed when he was a teenager, I left his house one day and never went back because he had chosen to stay in that same room playing the same PlayStation games, smoking weed with the same people, day in, day out, year after year.
Im assured through my brother he’s still sat in the same house doing the same things, never once sought a days work in his life, has three kids now, fourth on the way.
It’s an undeniable, viable, life choice for some Steve. He has no qualifications, any job he could find would pay less than what he gets to stay home smoking and playing PlayStation games.
I grew up with the vast majority of my friends in council estates and some choose to leave and some choose to stay, its a sad fact of life in this age.
The overwhelming difference is in the mindset, coupled with the ‘option’ to choose to do nothing and be content with what they get.
Support should be there when you need it, when you’ve fallen on hard times, like our parents did. It’s now perversely used as a potentially permanent choice of income. It makes me sad more than angry, it’s an ambition killer amongst the youth of today.