I'm gonna elaborate on my point, lest anyone thinks I'm just shitposting.
Luis Aragones, former Spanish NT manager, got in trouble for calling Thierry Henry a "black shit." His response: " The problem of racism is, in my opinion, a question of conscience and all I can say is that mine is clear." Henry's Spanish teammate Manuel Almunia said: " He is a strong personality who was only trying to motivate his players. But racist, not at all." (Sources
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Two years ago, when Camavinga signed for Real Madrid, a reporter got in trouble for describing him as "blacker than his suit" on a hot mic. Of the incident, she has said: "I have apologized for a mistake, for a comment that I made on a mic, but I'm not going to apologize for a racist comment because I did not make one." (
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The Spanish basketball team was criticized for an ad in 2008 where they all did the "chinese eyes" gesture. Pau Gasol said: "it was a bad idea, but no intention to be racist." Jose Antonio Calderón said: "Anyone who interprets anything else from these photos is totally wrong." (
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In 2008, a group of Spanish fans taunted Lewis Hamilton by doing blackface and put on t-shirts with the text "Hamilton's family" at the Circuit de Catalunya. Although response was generally negative, you can still finds comments saying it was "meant to be a joke" (
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In 2020 the newspaper ABC said Ansu Fati runs like "an African street vendor running away from the police." The journalist apologized, saying: "Some of my expressions were taken as racist. This was not my intention, nor my opinion, as I hold a very positive view of the player. I'm sorry about the misunderstanding and I apologize to anyone who might have felt offended." (
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It's a very pervasive attitude. Apologetic but extremely defensive. Only vaguely aware that something bad happened. There's tons and tons of examples like that. "This is what our culture is like," "that's not offensive here", "you are too obsessed with these things", etc.