Don't Kill Bill
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Micky 'who ate all the pies' Quinn has just been on Talksport promoting and and singing the praises of Dressage and Eventing. Oh that snooty elitist him!
1. Of course they didn't, effort and determination is just as important as elsewhere. Furthermore i think such a statement takes away individual responsibility and seemingly excuses failure in the state system as a rule.
2. In part answered above. Are you saying that they shouldn't have done their best by their child? So it is right for someone to resent another over decisions either beyond their control or which they would have accepted just the same?
3. They sought the best education they could and made sacrifices to that end yet should feel guilty huh? Can everybody say likewise? Perhaps successive governments should be brought to book for creating the preent culture in the state system.
1. I think it's the other way around. Individual, against the odds, successes being used to mask iniquity, vilify the majority who then fail and then attack the state system. It’s much easier to act selfishly if you can find reason to blame the system for that selfishness. If the most successful parents leave that clearly promotes failure for those left behind.
2. The problem is that as parents we are hypocrites. On the one hand we want our children to have an equal chance of success but if at any point we gain enough spare income to tilt the playing field and make life easier for our own children, then we do just that. While it is understandable it can't be right. Resenting the system and the ingrained injustice isn't resenting the individual who benefitted from that injustice, the day we stop doing so is the day we give up trying to make things better.
3. Making sacrifices for your children isn't the sole domain of the middle class. Private education is beyond the means of most people, whether willing to make sacrifices or not. Again the excuse to hide the inequity. "I am sending my child to private school because I am willing to make the sacrifices others aren't", feels a lot better than "I am sending my children to private school because I want to increase their chance of success by buying an advantage most can't afford".
There are consequences for our choices and some of them land on our children. If you go to private school, you will benefit in almost every way that matters but you will have been given an advantage above most. The moral consequence of that is you can't ever be sure you would have succeeded on the level playing field and those without your privilege will forever remind you of that fact.