I agree with most of what you say even if I have to admit that I didn't really compare the videos on such a level of detail. As I said, I think both of them analyzed the game pretty well. The thing I liked more in the tifo video was that it didn't "just" state that we fell apart in 2nd half. Like "United was great in 1st half but really bad in 2nd, thats why they lost unfortunately" which is something I read around here on a couple of occasions - this isn't what I saw (with all my obvious biases and perspectives of course).To be fair, I think both analysis are good and to the point, with lots of good examples, and both overlap and complement each other. Statman’s description of the rest defense organisation is more precise to me than Tifo, who again has a better analysis on Tottenham’s second half counterplay and how It affected United’s plan A. Tifo had a good description of Utd’s plan A press, while Statman better described the attacking organizations and how Utd actually got to so many good chances first half. Statman also points out the issues with directness when it’s too one sides, while Tifo adressed playing out from the back which tbh I think is partly a trope, and partly a problem only as the game drew on, because for a long time Utd got into the oppo’s half and even last third, for a long while Spurs only had the ball in their own half or on Statman’s noted transitions.
What none of them point out, is the uncertainty between what is Utd’s strategy for the game, and what is how it looks when players aren’t match sharp and fit enough to fully execute it. A plan A that might work a treat against the opponents tactics, might crumble badly if just two or three players are not physically or mentally up to speed. You might want a manager to revert to plan B and C then, but if he feels that they are closing in on how they are tarhetting to play, maybe it’s right to focus fully on plan A for the first few weeks to get it fully going, insted of confusing things. The next four games will show much better I think what Ten Hag’s plans with how we’ve set up aginst Wolves and Spurs really were.
I saw two decent to good teams in 1st half who played a relative open match with United having more striking scenes and a bit of an upper hand (don't really subscribe to the "battered them" or "had multiple sitters" thing, only thing I considered a really good chance was the Bruno header and the potential pen).
In 2nd half this ended somehow, I thought we lost grip and unfortunately, ours subs didn't have any impact on the match (don't think, the subs were wrong, just think there didn't impacted the game much, to swing it more in our favor). And tifo describes this by saying that in 1st half, Spurs shape helped our pressing structure (by having two narrow fullbacks) while in 2nd half, they were aware of that, adapted and our plan wasn't effective anymore. Which sounds like a plausible explanation to me and it fits my observation.
But as I said, there is a lot of biases and subjectivity involved. I think, such videos really help to get a feeling for the details, our and of course opponents managers have to prepare for. Can understand, why some fans don't like it, but thats ok. Everybody is in that thing for different reasons.