It doesn't help them at all. Mental institutions are some of the worst places on this planet for everyone involved.
As bad as prisons, in which you are known to be a child murderer? I guess they are still protected to a degree. Ugh.
It doesn't help them at all. Mental institutions are some of the worst places on this planet for everyone involved.
Wasn’t the Ariana Grande concert culprit under 18 ?He's under 18 I don't think they can name him.
What’s the benefit of this?
It's extremely unlikely that he'll ever be released either way.I'm not adamant, I'm just stating that the mental health route helps these people, instead of demonizing them.
I don't believe these people can be given rehabilitation. Just my opinion.
No, he was 22.Wasn’t the Ariana Grande concert culprit under 18 ?
Do you believe someone like him can be saved and shouldn't receive max consequences through the justice system?
But as a society we can potentially learn from their treatment and be better informed which in turn could help prevent future incidents.
This idea that mental health is thrown out as some kind of excuse that leads to perpetrators being wrapped in cotton wool and put in swanky hotel rooms rather than prison where they belong is just untrue and daft.
Cherish every moment. The thought of anything jeopardising our children’s safety is utterly terrifying. My little girl’s two years old and with everything going on in the world I often think I’m a terribly overbearing dad.I’m just putting my little boy to bed and he’s just drifted off. He won’t be two for a few months yet and the thought of anyone hurting him fills me with unimaginable dread. I just cannot begin to imagine what those parents are going through tonight.
I can’t help but lie with him a little longer tonight and appreciate the fact he’s safe here with me.
I don't believe these people can be given rehabilitation. Just my opinion.
Can you imagine being a victim as a child to an act like this and then reading later on in life that it wasn't an act of terror, but the guy was a vulnerable mentally ill person. I'd personally feel enraged. Their lives will never be the same.
This is where we disagree, but that's fine. In my opinion once you decide to inflict harm upon a child, treatment should be not available to you, and you should be locked away forever with the key thrown away.
Cherish every moment. The thought of anything jeopardising our children’s safety is utterly terrifying. My little girl’s two years old and with everything going on in the world I often think I’m a terribly overbearing dad.
Hope I don’t stifle her ambitions, and that she understands I just want her to be safe.
What breaks my heart is those parents wanted the same for their girls.
Death is death. Parents don't need an underlying political reason why their child died.
We all need to be a bit wary about that. We’re so immersed in media that the world can seem a lot more dangerous than it really is. Kids have a good radar for these things and if they grow up sensing that their parents perceive the world as a very scary place, either by what they say or do, then that can cause problems down the road. I wouldn’t be surprised at all if over anxious and protective parents is a factor in the teen mental health crisis that seems to be happening right now.
It’s kind of fecked up but just the right amount of ‘neglect’ can help kids grow up resilient. That’s why younger siblings are often much more confident. The firstborn is the child that absorbs all the parental anxiety. By the time they have second and subsequent kids the parents are generally much less obsessed about constantly monitoring the safety of their child.
I had that conversation with family members a few months ago. During our childhood, we would go out and discover our surrounding without much worry, our parents and teachers would tell us to be careful and don't trust any adult or other reckless kids and that was it. We would disappear for half of the day and comeback home. Now I see parents refusing to let teenagers walk to highschool or middle school on their own.
It is basically impossible to fake mental illness. There are people who are experts at identifying it.Have you never seen/heard of cases before where murderers will attempt to play the mental illness card, and get off lightly as a result? I'm mainly coming from a place where this monster doesn't face as severe a punishment because of literally murdering kids in broad daylight.
Yeah, Edward Norton was great in that.Have you never seen/heard of cases before where murderers will attempt to play the mental illness card, and get off lightly as a result? I'm mainly coming from a place where this monster doesn't face as severe a punishment because of literally murdering kids in broad daylight.
The vermin was an asylum seeker who arrived via dinghy last year.
I bet that they are still flapping.Swift delete from Fergies Gum.
Hopefully gets dealt with.Swift delete from Fergies Gum.
Yeah, Guardian says that too.News (BBC) said he was born in Cardiff?
Doesn't make it any better/worse, horrible events.
A 17-year-old boy, from the village of Banks in Lancashire and born in Cardiff
Like what?I now wish I hadn’t read some of the other details in their coverage
Scousers usually.who travels by dinghy from cardiff to southport these days
Like what?
From the Telegraph:
The youth, who cannot be named for legal reasons and is originally from Cardiff, moved to the Southport area with his Rwandan parents when he was aged six.
This suggests he is British, born to parents who were originally from Rwanda. Nothing to do with asylum seekers or anything of that ilk.
The curious thing to me is that he must have targeted this event. He travelled by taxi from Banks, which would take about 15 or 20 minutes, it's right at the other end of town.
Don't want to touch the horror that is the main topic here, but some thoughtful posts from fellow parents on ensuring their kids don't grow up in fear reminded me of the really good work Jonathan Haidt does.
This is a good read : https://www.amazon.co.uk/Coddling-A...fb-82f9-d9cae2928e7e&pd_rd_i=0141986301&psc=1
And his new book on kids and screens/social media is another must read.
Sorry if off topic, didn't want to start a redcafe parents thread..though..maybe not a bad idea!
Reading the reviews it looks like it's attracted all the right wing boomer types who want to blame young people and the 'libs' for all of societies ills.Don't want to touch the horror that is the main topic here, but some thoughtful posts from fellow parents on ensuring their kids don't grow up in fear reminded me of the really good work Jonathan Haidt does.
This is a good read : https://www.amazon.co.uk/Coddling-A...fb-82f9-d9cae2928e7e&pd_rd_i=0141986301&psc=1
And his new book on kids and screens/social media is another must read.
Sorry if off topic, didn't want to start a redcafe parents thread..though..maybe not a bad idea!
Probably best in the General though rather than in here. Inevitably some of the things that people will want to discuss will be quite personal.Sorry if off topic, didn't want to start a redcafe parents thread..though..maybe not a bad idea!
I dont have the answer. I think whoever stabbed children must have been mentally ill. Maybe better care for the mentally ill, especially those who are dangerous would help prevent such things.The question was how do you stop things like this from happening.
More stop and search won’t stop every attack - but if it stops 1 it’s a huge success in my eyes and we’d never even know about it.
For anyone who wants the latest update from the police: this is from last night
https://www.merseyside.police.uk/ne...ennedy-following-major-incident-in-southport/
Inevitably there's a lot of speculation around the attacker, on his background and his motives.