africanspur
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Ok, fair enough and thanks for your explanation of it, I can see that and it’s understandable.
I’m at the point where yes I can see a descriptor may cause offence because of the past use of the word, but at the same time it’s pretty much a fact that our eyes see and would use to identify someone.
im sure I’ve seen people of colour mock others who say they don’t see colour so it’s just pretty confusing and we’re heading to a place where it’s better to just keep your mouth shut and not converse.
I don’t know so I’ll stay out of it
No worries.
I think though that most people don't expect such descriptors to disappear completely. If I got burgled for instance and saw the offender, I would of course explain the guy in every detail to the police, including his racial origin. If I was doing a population census, then yes, I'd ask for ethnicity/ colour. In my job, I would want to know about ethnicity because it can affect the types of diseases people can get (a white person generally isn't going to get sickle cell for instance) and sometimes the treatments we offer too (white and black people have different responses to things as simple and common as high blood pressure meds for instance). It has its places. Some people may even do it with friends and their friends may be OK with it. And that's OK too.
My own personal opinion on things like this has always been (and I appreciate this Romanian official may not have had the opportunity to deescalate) is to try to avoid things which can cause offense, especially if it comes at literally no cost to me at all. If I say or do something which is inadvertently offensive around a particular group and am told about it, I'll avoid it later. Its really not as hard as people make it out to be.
My experience of people who claim they don't see colour is that they're often using that as a cover to try to get away from the semi-offensive/quasi-racist comment they've just made.