You can't control 100% what the other team does, especially idf it's a powerful one like Arsenal. What Tottenham is doing is forcing Arsenal wide, to Tierney and Bellerin and never in key central areas. This way you won't prevent goals coming in but greatly minimises clear chances for the opposition. Notice Spurs players are never defending on the limit and Arsenal chances come from deep crosses which have a low probability of goal.
Now there's much more micro managament going on between two PL teams looking to take advantage and create space in dangerous areas but this match, as usual this season, Spurs have been superior. If you don't like it that's fair enough. I personally find it very amusing and even beautiful at times.