But that's just off the tee with a driver. That's where game and course management come into play and it's probably being overlooked. If the ball and driver are too responsive, something has to compromise, no? 5 wood or long irons off the tee, depend on your medium to long irons on your approach and dial it in on the greens.
For how specialized equipment and individual components are to a club (grip, shaft, head, angle/lie), players should be able to exert control within their game. But as you said, distance is hyperfocused instead of true ball striking and shot shaping, which isn't isolated to a driver.