The guys don't respect you for the way you treat the girls. They think it makes you look like a slapper. You're not one of the guys. You're not one of the girls.
You hang on and flirt with the guys too much to have their respect, expecially when we are nasty to you and you just keep coming back like a hurt puppy. And then you burn all your bridges with all the girls.
Why? Out of some desire to be one of the lads? Or to be liked by the lads? You've got to tell us to feck off and stand up for yourself before you'll get any real respect or friendship from the lads.
And we see the way you treat the girls, and it makes you look like shit. Why do you do it?
I like what I know of you as a person, I just can't fathom why you do things like what you're doing, or why you let people like Spoony and even me treat you so badly without speaking up.