fecking bollocks thread

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can all us girls be friends please and take the piss out of jason :)
 
jasonrh said:
I think it's more likely she's just forgiven you for being nasty.



You do take it seriously or you wouldn't still be here, and you certainly wouldn't still be on tonight.

Your 'egotism and vanity' are some of your fun traits, if that makes sense. I'm not asking you to pretend you're a different person, I'm just asking you to consider not being so dismissive of the girls, and certainly to just let sleeping dogs lie with GG.

And to keep in mind how you would feel if people said those things about you. With men it's a totally different kind of banter. With women, feelings can be hurt. You may say they aren't, but they are.

Let's start all this anew. No one apologises to anyone. No one posts any picture. But no one acts in a way that would intentionally hurt anyone's feelings again.

Can we do that? I want to be able to be your friend and GG's friend at the same time.
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Jason the thing that is still behind me is what do you have to do with that?We can sort it out without you!It's none of your business.
 
laura said:
Jason the thing that is still behind me is what do you have to do with that?We can sort it out without you!It's none of your business.
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It hasn't been sorted out so far. It's just gotten nastier and nastier. She was the Flashwok to your Yatta.

And I enjoy both of your company, so as a mutual 'friend', to the extent you can be on an internet site, I am asking you to let it die.
 
jasonrh said:
Can we just end it all, and not start it again? You two don't even remember how it started.

You both feel like you're in the right. You both aren't going to apologize because you're both very stubborn girls. :p

But can you just chalk all of that up to the past, and start completely fresh?

The girls won't 'gang up' on you or ignore you, and you won't say hurtful things to them. I apologize for the times when I have been weak and participated in the calling you a slapper, etc.

Does that sound like a plan?
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Jason,this problem isn't a problem at all and it's not even worth discussing on 10 pages of Slabbs' great thread.You're just overstating everything.It's not worth the trouble.We've already forgotten everything and you start it all again and again.
 
Barbara Charles said:
Jason: your mediation/settlement skills are going to hold you in good stead should you ever decide to practice law.
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:lol: :confused: he's rubbish!

his sole advice...ignore each other!

don't ever go into Marital Counselling, jay ;)
 
GiggsysGirl said:
that's the nastiest thing you've ever said to me :(

i'm dropping it now...if she keeps her yap shut.
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At least he didnt say you were the Yatta.
 
jasonrh said:
You do take it seriously or you wouldn't still be here, and you certainly wouldn't still be on tonight.

Your 'egotism and vanity' are some of your fun traits, if that makes sense. I'm not asking you to pretend you're a different person, I'm just asking you to consider not being so dismissive of the girls, and certainly to just let sleeping dogs lie with GG.

And to keep in mind how you would feel if people said those things about you. With men it's a totally different kind of banter. With women, feelings can be hurt. You may say they aren't, but they are.
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Nah I think that if I went it would show my weakness and cowardice and would mean that you're right that the feelings are hurt.Im not the type who hides.It's kinda challenge for me.To prove that you can't break me.Probably it could sound funny but it is so.
 
laura said:
Nah I think that if I went it would show my weakness and cowardice and would mean that you're right that the feelings are hurt.Im not the type who hides.It's kinda challenge for me.To prove that you can't break me.Probably it could sound funny but it is so.
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i wish i knew you in real life.
 
laura said:
Nah I think that if I went it would show my weakness and cowardice and would mean that you're right that the feelings are hurt.Im not the type who hides.It's kinda challenge for me.To prove that you can't break me.Probably it could sound funny but it is so.
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No, it makes sense.

No one is trying to break you or hurt your feelings, just to smooth over your road here.

The brave thing is to let the past be the past.
 
GiggsysGirl said:
yes you fecking did! YOU INSULTED ME! your comment was insulting, uncalled for and just plain wrong!

and like i said before...



and you fecking know it!
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I couldn't even believe that anyone could be so sensitive.I'm really glad that my neighbours won't ever moan about the loud music...nowt personal.
 
laura said:
I couldn't even believ that anyone could be so sensitive.I'm really glad that my neighbours won't ever moan about the loud music...nowt personal.
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you are really funambulating with me, right now.
 
laura said:
I couldn't even believ that anyone could be so sensitive.I'm really glad that my neighbours won't ever moan about the loud music...nowt personal.
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But now you know how she is, and she knows how you are. With that understanding, you can erase the past.

I'm not asking you to hang out with each other. Just to let the past be the past, and to not do anything that may hurt the feelings of the other.

The hardest thing to do is to say "ok" to that.
 
laura said:
Nah I think that if I went it would show my weakness and cowardice and would mean that you're right that the feelings are hurt.Im not the type who hides.It's kinda challenge for me.To prove that you can't break me.Probably it could sound funny but it is so.
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laura love.

us girls are not trying to break you, we want you on our side against the baddies ;)

its futile us girls falling out, all it does is serves the stupid blokes fantasies about us
 
GiggsysGirl said:
you are really funambulating with me, right now.
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That is not a word.

She is saying she didn't realise she was causing offense. Just take her at face value for once please.
 
jasonrh said:
Laura is too, I reckon she's just afraid to admit it.

Laura's feelings were hurt. GGs feelings were hurt.

Laura feels like the girls are isolating themselves. The girls feel like Laura is isolating herself.

As for the NA thing, perhaps it's that I was upset for no angel at some of what was said and done. It didn't seem like joking to me. But let's forget that.
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Jason,you're a real drama queen
 
jasonrh said:
But now you know how she is, and she knows how you are. With that understanding, you can erase the past.

I'm not asking you to hang out with each other. Just to let the past be the past, and to not do anything that may hurt the feelings of the other.

The hardest thing to do is to say "ok" to that.
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careful jason! i am not like anything. if she knew the shit i've been going through with my neighbours, she would understand what a spineless and insulting comment her's truly was.
 
jasonrh said:
Then why did you let GG upset you so much that two years on you're still feuding because of something she started?

You're more sensitive than you pretend to be.

The girls want to help now.

We're not going to resolve you and GG's issues overnight.

Can we just make it so you and GG go your separate ways, and the other girls will make an effort to not leave you in the lurch?
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I forgot everything what happened 2 years ago and then we went our separate ways but

she started it again yesterday...just out of the blue.Cos she thought that I intended anything I didn't intend at all.

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laura said:
I forgot everything what happened 2 years ago and then we went our separate ways but

that's because nothing happened two years ago.

she started it again yesterday...just out of the blue.Cos she thought that I intended anything I didn't intend at all.

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bollocks.

say that again...i dare you.
 
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