With next to zero technical knowledge to back it up, my working theory is that the Simulation Hypothesis is correct and that moment of the Big Bang is akin to an old monitor flashing on and the light expanding from a point in the centre of the screen. Then to wrap my head around this idea that the universe is always expanding, I chalk it down to the ever expanding memory needed to run such an ever program over time.
It's bollocks obviously, but it helps me stay sane to rationalise things with "The Universe According to Diarm".
That is as good an answer as anything.
But it is really good to think about these things in a theoretical way. I certainly don't have the mathematics to do what theoretical physists can do. And I can admire them for being able to do what they do.
All I can do is dream.