My grandmother literally took her anger and grudges to her grave. We hadn't got along for like 15-20 years due to the political and religious stances and her asshattery (like forwarding stupid emails until I blocked her). I was able to look past her racism, her uber-christian mindset, her pro-republican bullsit, her tin foil hattery, but the minute I told her I was an atheist and later stood up against the family IRT to politics (especially their blurred racism towards Obama), I was put on her shit list. When the will was read this past October she specifically inserted a bullet that I was not permitted to carry her to the grave. I remained at home. One less angry white woman left in this country. No wonder my grandpa divorced her many years ago.
So, yeah, feck family members and their bullshit. I'll call them all out for being racists fecktards.