Elanga wrote, with a few laughing emojis.
He also recalled an occasion in his early teenage years that had left an impression. “I’ll always remember that time in Mallorca,” he said. “Sorry for keeping you awake with my snoring.”
Ryan stayed overnight with Elanga in hospital after he had sustained a neck injury in an under-14s game on the Spanish island. “It was in the days when we didn’t have many staff so I was head coach, tour leader, player welfare, the lot,” Ryan remembers. “Anthony hurt his neck on the AstroTurf. The ambulance actually came on the pitch, I ran on, and obviously he couldn’t go to hospital on his own. The physio had to stay with the game.
“Your instincts kick in. I’m sure there were players in that group who were higher flyers than him at that point. He wasn’t the star, just another boy injured you care for. We got there and he had to stay overnight as a precaution. He had fallen and they were unsure. He got this neck brace.
“I had to sleep in a chair, I gave him my laptop so he could watch movies, Marvel or something. I couldn’t sleep, I had to ring his mum every 10 minutes. He was a bit upset, in hospital abroad, alone and uncertain what would come from his injury. We just had a laugh, I kept telling jokes to keep his spirits up.